Incest porn and chat triggers me

Discussion in 'Problematic Sexual Behavior' started by Pati_ryu, Nov 8, 2021.

  1. Pati_ryu

    Pati_ryu Fapstronaut

    I have sadly a fixation on a particular video of incest porn between sis and bro and relapsed in it many times
    Also I like to read incest story and chat about it ...
    And sad thing is I am kinda guiltfree nowadays untill I fap to this fetish.
    It feel like I am tellig everyone my innermost evil and I kinda feel free for sometime
    When I sext about incest.
    But deepdown ..it's troubles me and
    ..I have decided to go on nofap for one year without relpad which I can do easily
    But I need to sort out some cobwebs out of.my mind.because I feel like I am already a sinner. What worse can happen and I am beyong redemption.
    A help is needed.
     
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  2. Idf1998

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    I dont think you have a problem man of fmo . Its not like you are going to sleep with your sister lol
    you like taboo things , what the difrrent between step sister or step mom , all who watch porn sees that dont be mistaken. it is always good to stop watch porn but whats you doing is normal i guess . remember that your brain is sarching for more stimulation things such as taboo as the time past by. so taboo and more porn with “good/taboo plot” is part of it.
     
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  3. Chevu Chelios

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    I think it is problem, because you let your brain plot this incest type stories, when you should erase them the instant they arrive in your mind. Of course, every living man probably thought about incest couple of times, because it`s natural for us to think about sick/unnatural subjects, but not everyone let themselves go and feed on their fantasies just for dopamine release. In my opinion, you should stop reading stories/ watching incest videos and talk with someone about this problem if you have courage, if not just think about your own mother and sister if you have one, how would they feel about this fantasies of yours?
     
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  4. {Ananta}

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    incest an indulgence is the culprit to the down fall an self destruction of past great empires and kindoms
     
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  5. Idf1998

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    Of course its a general problem but its kind of normal for all who watch porn for a long time , lets be honest . Its better to stop thats true.
    But dont take it to the wrong places.
     
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  6. Candun

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    That says a lot about P.
     
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  7. Budd S

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    ...your fetish is my fetish as well... don't know where it came from (kinda do... had some weird female family dynamics when I was a kid, so there was that).

    Look, I have been seeking and finding the incest porn for years. It is out there and that it is so prevalent that I know there must be many others who seek it as well. Don't let it get you down too much. Everybody is different. We are just caught up in a fetish... can't say one is better than another.. people look at scat, snuff, rape, etc. I try not to judge.

    Take steps to block this stuff and commit to not watching porn in general (one thing will lead to another). Check your thoughts every day. Watch out for what you put into your mind. Even simple glances or putting yourself into scenarios that may trigger relapse (I live in a beach town and I must control where my eyes look and what thoughts are popping into my head... believe me, I can imagine a lot of sexual fantasies very quickly).

    I have addiction issues to begin with - alcohol, weed, poppers, anything to get that dopamine hit - I haven't had a drink of alcohol in 17+ years but I have determined that my weed dependency is my starting point... my trigger. So, I am trying "clean and sober" living now. I know I must do something different or the same thing will happen again and again (as it has for the past 50 years). I only mention this as others may be blaming the porn for their issues when the issue really begins before we start looking at it. My first toke would automatically send my mind into my "ritual" mode - thinking porn (incest specific with sis, Ma, and now Gma)... getting really worked up and spending hours teasing myself, seeking my genre, edging, climaxing. then lather, rinse, repeat multiple times per day.

    I wish you best of luck. One year of NoFap is good to have a goal... I set my goals slightly lower.. one day at a time. keep in touch. Best of luck
     
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  8. Wugazi32

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    Guilty! :(
     
  9. Idf1998

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    Thats just porn man . its like pepole watch pervmom and so on. Its taboo and the “brain” love it. After a while your brain would want something new to watch, and so on.
    Thats the problem not the content.
     
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  10. Mazda647

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    Incest porn was one of my porn paths.

    The biggest advice I can give is that we can all be attracted to these sorts of things. If we were not attracted then we would not continue down that path. Attraction is OK. Attraction is not bad, it's a part of life.

    A thought which comes to mind is "If it can be done, I will desire it."

    To come at this from another angle, you already are a sinner. We all are.

    Now, being attracted to incest porn or stories is not the same as being attracted to ones actual sister. Sometimes it's just an attraction to the forbidden. Even if a person were attracted to a their actual sister it is still OK. I believe you've done great. You see you have a problem and sought help. Opening up about this stuff and giving it away is the best way to leave it behind. You are not alone.
     
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  11. Pati_ryu

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    I would like to update my progress:
    I watched some video explaining how to cure this fetish and was worried I might have some OCD
    I was ashamed of having this fetish and then one fine day I just decided i won't do it again(incest chats or fap or porn to incest fetish)
    And boom my craving and urges are gone now my mind is healthier and less self loathing.
    I was surprised how fast this progress is working if u stop feeding it more by stories or videos or chats..
    It is being coming at natural levels and I cant be more proud of it.

    So yeah it is kinda cured now .and I don't triggers me ..

    And I will be ready if it happens again future.
     
  12. Pati_ryu

    Pati_ryu Fapstronaut

    Update #3
    Whenever my mind is free and gives me idea that hey why don't u try it just once more
    With my personal experience I now know that it's my brain method of fooling me.
    Just don't let that mind win
    It's like the laziest monkey u will ever know and it's unpredictble.
    I had counted a relpase as my final Rockbottom and I consider it will be my last time I will ever fap on this fetish.
    And prayed for strength to not repeat it but I know it's a old lie .....
    So the next challenge was to remember the promise I made to myself that I won't do it again and stopped for a while ........and now after ..2 weeks of stopping consumption of that fetish in text chat or video I don't feel attracted to that fetish.
     
  13. Devilinme2

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    Other then dealing with your porn addiction, you got to stop beating urself up about these fetish issues… unless u are using these as a substitute to fuel your actual sexual desire for your real life sister/mother/father/daughter…it is just a fantasy no more destructive then the general porn addiction you are dealing with…
     
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  14. Mazda647

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    It seems wise to know the difference between stopping viewing porn or redirecting our thoughts when something we want to move away from and never having these thoughts or temptations. The desire to be perfectly be some way, that's a hard one to let go of.
     

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