Insecure and self loathing

Dude, not that small. Besides, bigger doesn't always help, it sometimes hurts. Nice Asian girls especially don't want someone too big. Enjoy your size, and continue to allow retention to improve your overall shape and feel as it has mine. I'm past 30 with only 1 nocturnal emission in 2 months, and no pmo for the same, and my feel is like I'm 17 again. Sometimes the look too. You're fine, concentrate on something like exercise, eating/sleeping better to make your overall whole body healthier and more nourished for intimacy.

 

I poured a cup of boiling water on my groin the other month. It burned right through the skin. It was the most unimaginable pain you could try to imagine. I have cracked an arm clean in half and the pain was on par with that. It left my penis and balls blistered and scabbed. I had no burn gel or aloe vera in the house, and the pain was something most people would have called 911 for.

Long story short my penis and balls healed ok, but my thighs have these burn spots on them. I definitely don't plan on becoming intimate with a woman anytime soon, and the scars on my thighs reinforce this everytime I take my pants off. I need to be celibate for sometime anyways. I think I will aim for celibacy until marriage if I ever marry.

Not sure how that is at all relevant here but thanks for letting me share it somewhere.

I like the size of my penis, but this last relapse I fapped so hard that it damaged my psyche and changed how I view human sexuality, heck I fapped so hard and hurt my penis that is rattled my view of existence.

 

Hope you can heal soon. Use the aloe vera, cocoa butter, and vitamins C & E.

 

LtGen James,

Wowch! I hope you healed.

 

Hi
Same thing here, but I have had it for 20 years.
Im I small? In my opinion yes, and one reason for that is - only seen erect porn dicks, and these compared to mine are Big. Well they are big compared to 90+% of men. By the surveys done, most men would like that their dicks are bigger.
So, my latest three excperiences are: One woman from whome I asked, looked at it and said its small. She told if I hadnt asked, she wouldnt have noticed it by penetration (mother of 2, 45years). The other said, that its not small because she had a little pain down there (mother of three, 35years). Third, my ex (who left me on my birthday and got a new man in month), who now wants to come back, told that its not small, but my premature ejaculation is the problem. There you have it. Lots of different opinions from different woman.
Mostly, if theres a guestion about size, its the girth that is more important. And advice for you and all the others: Dont ask about your size from a woman. You draw negative attention to your unit and yourself. Theyll never give you the exact answer you want to hear. If you are big for them, theyll let you know. Three things that are more important (yes there are more), to a woman in bed are: CONNECTION, how you can read them in bed, how hard you are and endurance. This topic is something we can talk for a long time

 

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I am going to start a new thread for this. Trigger warnings and ground rules are needed for a discussion of this nature.