Intense fantasies, precumming

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by mnkeyseemonkeydo0, Mar 5, 2015.

  1. mnkeyseemonkeydo0

    mnkeyseemonkeydo0 Fapstronaut

    So I'm on day 16 of my nofap challenge. I pet my penis a little but stopped figuring I'd take my mind off, but I stumbled on a hot craigslist ad (no pics, just a post) that got my fantasies going. I haven't touched it but I'm so horny and precumming intensely. Is this breaking my reboot? I'm resisting and trying to think of other things, it's just that I've got a bit of a leak
  2. IGY

    IGY Guest

    I am not sure what you mean by petting your penis a little - could you elaborate on this. I have never stumbled on a craigslist ad, so how did that happen? You say you are fantasising as well. It is hardly surprising that your penis is getting ready for sex, which is indicated by precum oozing out. You will slow down your reboot if you cannot get your mind onto to something non-sexual.
  3. Petting sounds like edging to me. Its up to you if you want to reset. Be honest with yourself. Only you can honestly answer whether you need to reset, or not. Do you feel like you broke your promise to yourself by edging and using pornified visualizations?
  4. mnkeyseemonkeydo0

    mnkeyseemonkeydo0 Fapstronaut

    If I had pet it for a significant amount of time, then yes. However, I really only gave it a few seconds here and there- the rest was just a very hard erection. That I showed restraint even in its intensity was, I think, a big step. A part of me really was ready to give in, then I thought, "You know, this won't even be worth it. I'll jerk it for 2 minutes and it'll be out quick because it's so eager." I'd say that's a step up from looking at my favorite pornstars nightly. So I think I'll keep my counter intact. I'd say the line was blurred, but not crossed.
  5. M L

    M L Guest

    The problem isn't your penis - it's your brain! Why were you on craigslist?? That's a DECISION, not an accident, as IGY said. Just stay away from all that visual stimulus..
  6. foodman389

    foodman389 Fapstronaut

    Yeah I would say that although it is good that you were able to resist O'ing, you should have made the decision to stop earlier, before everything happened. I get it though, everything happens so fast. Everything seems fine and all of a sudden you realize what you're doing, but your body takes over. Trust me, when your body wants something, it can literally control you, so don't put yourself in a position where you can be controlled by your bodies wills in the first place. That's my advice, I hope it helps in some way.
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