Intimacy During Reboot... Meh

Lot Yanisin · May 10, 2019

I've read and even received a comment to the likes of "NoFap makes your personal love life better."

I feel like.....meh

I mean... I feel more 'strong like bull'
I'll give it that...and there's more..."climax" (to put it nicely)...

But better?

I feel like I missed the "why look at XXX if you have a S/O?" boat.

She's...well....not that good.
There, I said it. It's not the most thrilling or exciting either. Feels like there's maybe three things on the menu and ta'da.

Doesn't help it bums me out she doesn't have any care to do anything health wise out of her own initiative unless I'm doing something. I always gotta fing initiate which I hate.

I wish she was more autonomous and ambitious. When she did start getting more fit and losing inches off that belly and waist...I noticed I was more hands on... (whelp, that led to a second kid)

It's like...you see XXX...and it's like "well damn, I wanna get rode like that"...

"That looks like it'd make my eyes roll and toes curl. I wanna try that!'"

"Ohhhhhh.that lucky somabitch. It must feel amazing putting it in that _____'

Instead of Pornhub it's like the adult section of the Hallmark Channel.

Anywho...meh.

helpfuldude · May 12, 2019

I see what you mean, I think about it too sometimes, but here are couple of bullet points:

- "Why look at XXX if you have a S/O?" isn't realistic. Male animals seek a variety of partners (Coolidge effect).
- BUT, when you are with someone you truly love and trust, you experience a different dimension during sex. I cannot explain it in writing or porn cannot give you that visually, but I'm sure you've heard of it, it exists.
- In porn, we obviously see the most beautiful women, but life is not like that, and you probably aren't the hottest guy also. When you stop watching porn, you start getting attracted to women which aren't necessarily super hot.
- If there are new things you want to try sexually, why not talk to your partner about it?
- And lastly, in porn actors aren't actually having pleasure. Physical stuff they do aren't comfortable. Porn is not real.

Lot Yanisin · May 12, 2019

helpfuldude said: ↑

I see what you mean, I think about it too sometimes, but here are couple of bullet points:

- "Why look at XXX if you have a S/O?" isn't realistic. Male animals seek a variety of partners (Coolidge effect).
- BUT, when you are with someone you truly love and trust, you experience a different dimension during sex. I cannot explain it in writing or porn cannot give you that visually, but I'm sure you've heard of it, it exists.
- In porn, we obviously see the most beautiful women, but life is not like that, and you probably aren't the hottest guy also. When you stop watching porn, you start getting attracted to women which aren't necessarily super hot.
- If there are new things you want to try sexually, why not talk to your partner about it?
- And lastly, in porn actors aren't actually having pleasure. Physical stuff they do aren't comfortable. Porn is not real.
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-I don't know if I've experienced that 'different dimension' a bunch...maybe I have but it's not every single time... I'd have to ponder that

-Hmmmmm what/who is attractive to me hasn't changed. I still turned my head a few times last week like "damn that must feel like cotton candy".....so....same ol' Lot

-something to do with inner scar tissue due to C-sections prevents a 'freer' experience....bums me out. I do feel like my sexual prime isn't being lived up to its potential.

-Charlie and the Chocolate Factory with Gene Wilder isn't real either...but I'd still go on that boat ride with trippy hallucinations atop a river of chocolate you can drink. Ijs

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