Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by KanielOutis01, Sep 4, 2017.

  1. KanielOutis01

    KanielOutis01 Fapstronaut

    I am a 16 years old Male. I've PMO for 3 years, always hoping to do so for the last time. My biggest problem is that most people of my age think that PMO is okay, and criticize who is trying to stop. I Believe in god but most people in my city dont.
    So here I am, trying to defeat every little voice saying that PMO is good.
    Trying to bend my life and be the change I want to see in the world. Sorry for my rusty English...
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  2. Username1021

    Username1021 Fapstronaut

    Hey @KanielOutis01, welcome to Nofap! I've been PMOing for a long time myself. A lot of media is out there too saying that PMO is OK. Remember that that's for non-addicts, just like how alcohol is fine in moderation, but not for alcoholics. Browse around the site for some helpful tools. Wish you all the best.
  3. D . J .

    D . J . Fapstronaut

    Welcome to NoFap where you are amongst friends who are here to encourage you and sometimes challenge you but not judge you.

    The enemy is here to steal, kill and destroy. What are your current strategies for combating the enemy called PMO?
  4. KanielOutis01

    KanielOutis01 Fapstronaut

    Everytime I have urges I repeat the Fibonacci sequence. When this is not enough I turn off my phone and start to pray. If the urges are not gone yet I stop whatever I am doing and start reading, listening to music or signing
  5. D . J .

    D . J . Fapstronaut

  6. Wanna beat porn quicker than you thought you could?

    Here's how, and it's simple: You need to think about your original thoughts (the thoughts that you had immediately after you relapsed). You probably hated the fact that you lost against porn for the millionth time, didn't you? If so, that's great, because everything after this is important. If not, then I don't know what to tell you.

    The last time I relapsed was 27 days ago. Immediately after I relapsed for the millionth time, I felt horrible. I hated myself for failing. People say you shouldn't do things like this, that hating yourself will only make it worse. That's true, but if you use that hatred on porn instead of yourself, you will win. How do I know this? I know this because ever since I applied my idea, it has worked. You need to know that the highest I could usually get back then was 3 days. But look now, I'm at 27 days!

    It's usually bad to use hatred because it is a very dangerous emotion. But if you apply hatred to something bad, like the porn addiction, it will do you good. Use that hatred to fight back. Fight fire (yourself) with fire (porn). Use that hatred to tell yourself that PORN IS NOTHING and that IT SHOULD BE SEALED UP FOR ETERNITY! (Note: I italicized, bolded, and used CAPS on all of those words to show you how I feel towards porn. This should motivate you to get better.)

    Never listen to your dick, never listen to your second brain. Listen to your real self, listen to your original thoughts. Those thoughts matter! If I were playing a board game with porn, I'd cheat. In other words, I'd never give porn a chance lol. Think about it like that. That's how I view porn. IT'S HORRIBLE, IT NEEDS TO DIE WITH THE STUPID PORN INDUSTRY. Feel me now? Those CAPS should give you motivation. I CAN BEAT THIS ADDICTION, I WILL BEAT THIS ADDICTION, I MUST BEAT THIS ADDICTION!

    Never give up!
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