Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by ChoosingToWar, Nov 30, 2017.

  1. ChoosingToWar

    ChoosingToWar Fapstronaut

    Hello :)

    I just joined today, only found out about the site about an hour ago. I've been struggling against most PM, I had a two month streak going and I, unfortunately, relapsed back into the fight. I've been warring with these temptations for about five years, but a big change in my life is coming up and I'm realizing I really need to pull myself together. For a while I refused I was addicted--there was just "no way." I "had it under control," obviously.... I'm beginning to realize maybe I was... or maybe I am just playing it down as no big deal when in reality it is pretty bad. I mean once a week isn't something to be flippant about. So, I found my way here.

    Hoping to start winning this war against my temptations, glad to have found this opportunity and resource.

    Thanks for the welcome!
  2. Jerk Reaction

    Jerk Reaction Fapstronaut

    Welcome and keep your resolve! Start a journal, and keep us posted!
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  3. ChoosingToWar

    ChoosingToWar Fapstronaut

    Thank you! :D
  4. Menta_Na

    Menta_Na Fapstronaut

    glad your here, and i'm sure this is a good place for you to be. i would think once a week isnt something to be flippant about either. i would pry my peers and they would tell me they do it three times a week and i would say, wtf i don't even do it that much.
    the thing is i am sure there are other factors, and not everyone's brain chemistry is the same.
    i think the kind of porn you look at, time you have been doing it, and other things all affect our symptoms.
    regardless, i have made the choice not to look for justifications, and just embody my truth, which is that pmo has to go.
    i hope you are ready to do the same, and i wish you the best of luck.
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  5. ChoosingToWar

    ChoosingToWar Fapstronaut

    I entirely agree with your "truth" and I hope both you and I can reach that goal! Thank you for your encouraging words and I appreciate the welcome.
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