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Is 90 days without orgasm to extreme for some people?

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by leemac93, Dec 1, 2014.

  1. leemac93

    leemac93 Fapstronaut

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    I made it to 32 days pretty damn clean (my longest and cleanest streak YET!), then relapsed last night to porn. I did it once then jumped back on the horse like I always do, but this time it got me questioning how long I should hold off from orgasm for?

    I felt like crap at 32 days to say the least. Do any of you guys just masturbate without porn and just not watch porn? I mean I have a gf thanks to this streak which I'm really thank full for but I cant always see her because of our work hours so she cant always help me O.

    So my question is simply is 90 days without orgasm to extreme? or 90 days without porn with some regurlar masturbation more healthy?

    Thanks guys and good luck.

    Leemac93 Out
     
  2. monkotto

    monkotto Fapstronaut

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    both is possible. no porn (fap is allowed) or no pmo (or hardmode).

    it is your decision.

    in my opinion no pmo is the best choice for you. so you can have sex with your gf.

    some people here are masturbating without watching porn - so they are doing no porn. this would never work for me. i would definite watch porn again.
     
  3. TeddyBear

    TeddyBear Guest

    Hard mode is no sex.
     
  4. KrmGrn

    KrmGrn Fapstronaut

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    Yeah. I won't do hard mode. I have a girlfriend and being intimate with her is important for our relationship. I also don't know if I would personally do hard mode anyway. That's just me.

    But I don't allow any mastrbation or porn or any stimulating material (non-pornographic pictures, videos, etc.)

    I had a problem long before I had access to porn so I know my problem isn't just with porn, it's with sexual fantasy in general. Depends on your goals and your situation.
     

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