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Is a man's worth measured by the size of his penis?

Discussion in 'Compulsive Sexual Behavior' started by BrSweat, Dec 27, 2022.

  1. BrSweat

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    A man's worth is completely based on the size of his penis. If he has a small dick he is worthless and useless. This is how I am thinking nowadays. I don't have a tiny or micro penis thankfully but it's not big at all either so I feel pretty depressed.

    Looking back I've always had quite a bit body dysmorphia and insecurity about my size but I convinced myself I'm big. I've avoided sexual situations and turned down girls too bc I was afraid I'd make things awkward if it came down to sex. And reading things like "my dick isn't big so im not even a man" on places where they promote cuckoldry on reddit and shit just triggered more feelings of being a beta male and inadequacy.

    What to do guys? This shit is so depressing
     
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  2. Pauley

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    Of course, that's why in many countries doctors inspect the president's dick size before being elected. If you apply for a job, next to the schools you visited you put in your length and girth. In dating, you start with "hi I'm x cm long."
     
  3. Sirius White

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    Only idiots would do this. In old Greece for example smaller penises were prefered and portrayed on the many sculptures, because it was a sign of "moderation", which the Greeks valued as an important virtue. A huge penis was considered rather vulgar, that was displayed as an exotic kick like on barbaric slaves.
     
  4. Wave tamer

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    Bit racist lol,
     
    Last edited: Dec 27, 2022
  5. Wave tamer

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    President Trump managed to rig the measuring haha
     
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  6. IR254

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    It seems rather obvious that what you consider "dick size == worth" as a fact, when it isn't. In other words: The place you find yourself in is self-made, it doesn't really exist. You were probably influenced by porn and other people you met online (like the cuck forums you mentioned). And almost anything you learn from porn or from people deeply trapped in it, is not applicable to real life. It's just a fantasy world. There are so many better ways of measuring your self worth than a biological aspect, that you can't change anyways. I mean, let's assume you have a 10-incher....then what? Does that really make you a better person or more valuable to other people and yourself? I find that a funny idea.
     
  7. BenjaminWalker736

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    It doesn’t matter how big your penis is. If she doesn’t like the size of your penis, she ain’t the one.
     
  8. LOL!
     
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  9. Interesting. Who told you that penis size matters? I think your mind goes back to the P that you’ve watched and you somehow believe that women only want men who have a certain size. I would say that 99.9% of women out there don’t care. What women want is someone who loves them for who they are. Someone who is honest with them. Someone who isn’t self absorbed.

    So think about where those notions came from and realize that someone is lying to you. The size of your penis is probably one of the last things a woman cares about.
     
    Last edited: Jan 7, 2023
  10. Sirius White

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    The whole Antique was racist and enslaved each other. Rome or Sparta were practically based on slavery.
     
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  11. Wave tamer

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    You’d want them big boys in cages away from the chicks I guess.
     
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  12. FormerLeatherneck

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    Certain cultures are an actual porn genre.
     
  13. BrSweat

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    Guess so but it still blows. If only I was 2-3 Inches bigger my life would be vastly different.
     
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  14. BrSweat

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    Not a 10 incher, but if I was a bit bigger I'd be more confident, get girls, which In turn would have a massive positive impact on my life yk
     
  15. Dr.J_76ers

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    I remember reading this article that said something like if you don't have a large penis then you've got to find a healthy self-esteem and confidence through other means. Like developing mastery or proficiency in a certain skill.

    Comparison is the root of all evils.
     
  16. BenjaminWalker736

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    You probably think that having a small cock sucks, but jerking off won’t make your penis bigger.
     
  17. BrSweat

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    I just can't get motivated to get good at anything, I'm stuck and obsessed about my peen
     
  18. Tuinuane

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    To say size doesn't matter is rather inaccurate. Of course girls care about dick size. But the truth is most of them look at a man as a package and not solely on dick size. At the end most of them will choose love over dick size.
     
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  19. So what can you do about it? Is there a surgery or something that can increase your penis size so that you can finally be happy?
     
  20. This is mental illness, learn to love yourself and use what God gave you.
     

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