I’m glad I found someone who doesn’t care. Seems pretty shallow to me. A healthy long lasting relationship is based on much more than just sex and pleasure.
Is a man's worth measured by the size of his penis?
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Tuinuane
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You are right. At the end it doesn't really matter. Those who do, will even cheat with someone with a smaller dick coz they are getting emotional support and love.
Still sex is important in a relationship. It completes intimacy.
Probably not. One of the symptoms of penis size dysmorphia is thinking you are smaller than you actually are. It's like anorexia, where people still feel fat no matter how thin they are in reality.
There are guys who are actually huge and still suffer from a mental belief they are small.
SilentWolfSong
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So you're interested in women who only care about penis size? They don't care about who you are? I mean, you can have it your way, but I'd rather forge a life-long relationship with someone who cared about me, not someone who cared about my penis.
It's interesting how you project your own problem onto the world explaining that they are national facts.
Yóu believe your worth is completely based on the size on your weener.
It's a sad thing that you somehow managed to identify yourself with the size of a certain body part.
It's no surprise that you fear women. That's not because of your dick size but because the worries you have about your own dick size. Thát will be the thing women will turf off.
I hope you will find ways to disconnect your dick size from your identity.
For sure you have a strong leak of connection with healthy manhood (in the base: your father).
Normally insecurity arises when the father is absent or the parents do other destructing stuff to their kids.
Go investigate all that stuff, go talk to a professional, buy some books, and read them.
And by the way: I am average in size (I think, I actually never worried about it) and I don't care at all about it.
My ex girlfriend thought the size was perfect.
It's a body part that God created to my body to let out waste materials, and a way to reproduce myself.
You should be glad that this part has been created at that height, and not like an elephant hanging on your face lol
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I totally agree.
If the dick size was 15 inches, he would be so proud of it that thát would be the next turn off from girls.
It all begins with self acceptance. If a man accepts himself, others will accept him too.
If a man rejects himself or part of himself, others will reject the exact same parts. It's that easy.
Surgery penis is fake penis lol, idk what I can do about it. There's some exercises with pump products, guess I could try that
Bad idea.
Very bad idea.
I know a guy who has screwed up his sexuality because of an overdose.
You won't suffer that much in your life.
Wave tamer
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I’ve done penis enhancement for 3 years as I had a complex after bullying. Over my flacid size. The exercises have made a difference but still mentally obsessed about it. But my thought was if I can do something to improve it, it’s better to put that obsessive energy into trying. Just like if I was fat I could do something about it. But the phobia is still there and it hasn’t grown much erect but flaccid size is quite a lot bigger.
I’d be careful. The last thing you want to do is injure yourself or do irreversible damage. If you truly base your self worth on the size of your penis, you may want to see a therapist.
From what? Overdose?
There's good reddit subs about penis growth. It might not be much growth but hey every micro inch would count right.
I hear you, I might still be obsessed and insecure after trying it but it's the only thing that gives me some hope and makes me feel less shit.
An overdose of sex.
He damaged his nerve system.
Damn, that's.....unfortunate
Yep. I don't want you to do the same.
Sexuality is not a toy.
mrpractical
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I am afraid too but its due to porn
So true. I remember learning that it was a muscle so figured exercising the muscle would make it stronger . . . nope. If anything I might have made it smaller.
Amen. Of course it matters, just like height, intelligence and how much money you have matters . . . at least to most women. Studies I have seen show that most women prefer a man with an average, or slightly larger than average sized penis. "Prefer" is the key word. We all have lots of preferences for our mates but rarely end up with someone who has all of our "preferred" traits.
I have a small penis. Not tiny, but smaller than average. Definitely smaller than any porn star (except one - my hero, haha!). It helped me enormously to acknowledge that fact so that I could accept it and move on.
Maybe I have watched too much porn. But the insecurity was always there even before
Wave tamer
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How big are you?
NutMaster777
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I don´t know if you´re capping but anyways,
Are you only interested in women with enormous breasts and ass? Are you only interested in having sex with your partner?
If so, how would you expect for women to think differently about you? You would have to start looking for something more meaningful to look for in the other.
If not, then you have no problem whatsoever, because if you´re looking for something significant, you won´t care if a girl obssesed with sex rejects you, because you would reject her as well. But you do have a problem, so why are you using a double standard on yourself?
Are you only interested in women with enormous breasts and ass? Are you only interested in having sex with your partner?
If so, how would you expect for women to think differently about you? You would have to start looking for something more meaningful to look for in the other.
If not, then you have no problem whatsoever, because if you´re looking for something significant, you won´t care if a girl obssesed with sex rejects you, because you would reject her as well. But you do have a problem, so why are you using a double standard on yourself?