Is a relationship good if feelings are still not there for other people

So, I have been talking with someone I like and want to date her as well. I am almost a year in hardmode, with MO, P-subs are a problem but not too bad. When I am with her I want to feel joy, happiness, and love but it seems my escalation to PMO has not totally healed yet. I know being something helps bring those feelings back by replacing the addiction.

I wonder if anybody else thinks it's better to hold of on relationships until I have more time under by belt to get my feelings back in line???

I still feel numb to other people and when we talk but it is getting better with more time.