Is anal penetrating bad for reboot??

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Deleted Account, Sep 18, 2017.

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  1. Hello!
    I just want to know is it bad if I like touching my asshole? I never had orgasm but I like the feel of touching and penetrating my anus.
     
  2. gingeralan

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    I would consider that masturbation.
     
  3. Do not do that. I am gay and got into fingering myself before masturbation. Eventually that led to masturbation and then I got addicted. I can gurantee that if you keep doing that it will lead to PMO. And if it doesn't, it is still instant dopamine which is what we are trying to avoid on NoFap. Trust me on this. I ruined my streak today because of this.
     
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  4. jtmony08

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    I believe any stimulation for sexual pleasure will lead you down a very dangerous path. Whether that's your anus, nuts, feet or some other part, doing so leads to other things. If you're looking to reboot, I would recommend avoiding anal play until you've reached your goal. During my last reboot, I would wake to unconsciously stroking my dick. Fortunately, I would catch myself and stop. My brain would be on autopilot. I don't believe you have to be gay to enjoy anal play. I do however believe you have to recognize threats to your recovery.
     
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  5. nofepper

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    It's still masturbation and sexual pleasure. I relapsed a lot of times because i did it. I was like "i'll play just little with my anal toy" and boom, after couple minutes there is anal orgasm and relapse.
     
  6. Plutonium

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    Please can you explain what is an "anal orgasm"? How is that even possible?
     
  7. Plutonium

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    I would tend to agree with the other replies. Sexual self-stimulation of any variety should be off the menu - it's a slippery slope activity.

    You're just going to have to find someone to stimulate your ass for you. Then it's legitimate, I believe.
     
  8. nofepper

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    It's called also prostate orgasm. You rub your prostate with finger or toy and you reach prostate orgasm. Simple as that. It's like normal orgasm, but last longer and feel better.
     
  9. Plutonium

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    This is fascinating. I feel like I live in a cave and still haven't got fire figured out.

    While you're having this longer, better orgasm - what's happening round the other side? Does this orgasm involve your cock in any way or is it completely independent?

    ...and is it possible to achieve this orgasm by oneself?
     
  10. MarinoBigFan1984

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    Best orgasm ever
     
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  11. nofepper

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    I am not sure is this trigger for people or not...but i'll answer...

    No, when i did it i just push cock between legs(i lay on my right side, it's best position), it's just because prostate, you feel it better and cock has nothing to do with this. I don't touch cock.

    And yes, anyone can do it alone, but there are some important things before anybody should try it. But i think it's trigger so...better not to write it
     
  12. Plutonium

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    This sounds too important not to write! Haha.

    As long as you put a TRIGGER WARNING at the top of your post I think you're safe to type.

    I half think you're winding me up. I consider myself to be an experienced guy and pretty broad minded, but this is a whole new world... :eek:
     
  13. Don't be so sure. I found nothing triggering in this odd description, but undoubtedly there are people here who will. Remember where you are, and refrain from discussing these things. One of the things that helped me leave PMO behind was leaving this site behind for a while as there is just too much coy banter about things that one is not supposed to do if NoFap is to be successful. This isn't a half-baked sex-ed class catering to strange tastes - no more so than an Alcoholics Anonymous class is a forum for discussing brewing techniques.

    Keep your mind on the goal at all times.
     
  14. Plutonium

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    Sorry, this is a fundamentally flawed argument. Essentially you are saying that people can be triggered by pretty much anything - which, of course, might well be true - and although it wasn't you triggered this time "undoubtedly" it will be someone else. If you practiced what you preached why would you risk posting on the forum at all? A recovering submissive, for instance, could be triggered by your passive-aggressive hectoring. Every single post you make contradicts your own argument.

    Love the normative statement! Who appointed you judge over which tastes are normal or strange?
     
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  15. No, the fundamental reason for being here is to quit PMO.
    There are too many people here using it as a virtual cafe to discuss their quirks.

    Happily over a year free of this. Perhaps with so much of it out of my system the issues others raise are indeed so far off the scale that they only seem OK to people mired in PMO.

    I wish you all luck, but you need to snap out of it.
     
  16. Plutonium

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    "Quirks"!? Is that how you describe a subject that is interesting to others but not to you?

    To make you happy please can you post an exhaustive list of all the non-quirky topics we are allowed to discuss here. We can then check it before posting so as not to upset your sensibilities.

    Well done! And I mean that sincerely. That is quite an achievement.
     
  17. MarinoBigFan1984

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    If you feel a trigger don't read the posts
     
  18. MarinoBigFan1984

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    You can orgasm just from the prostate stimulation but it takes awhile
     
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  19. Asgardian36

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    ROFL! I know its nor funny but kinda like an inside joke. I remember me doing that a couple of times before and how much I can relate to that. I most frequently find myself humping the bed unconsciously.
     
  20. People... Today I had really really hard time and I couldn't resist it and started massaging my prostate. I didn't had an orgasm but I did it about 15 minutes with little pauses. Now I feel a little shitti and bad, but not that much like after PMO. I know this may be a relapse but I don't know so I would like to ask you if you think this was a relapse. I will be Very sad if this would be a relapse, but I know that would be my fault and I will take the responsibility for what I did.
     

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