Is chatting to your girlfriend bad

I get turned on when I speak to my girlfriend and then when we have sex, Some times I don't have an erection.

This is something I recently noticed.

Is this a common experience?

 

Sometimes the conversation goes sexual. It just happens naturally. We both feel turned on by each other.

She's just expressing how she really feels. I feel the same way.


I had sex 3 days in a row with my new GF


Monday: I had sex twice. First time I came. Second time I did not come (did not force it) I kept getting erections through out the day


Tuesday: First time I came again. Second time I did not come (did not force it) I kept getting erections through the day


Wednesday: She gave me a call in the morning. The conversation started with I miss you and then she tell me I turn her on all the time. It escalates naturally and the conversation stays there. I have erections through out the day and feel excited to see her. I see her and then I have PIED.

It took a while for my erections to come back because I know she loves and care for me. I get turns on when a girl genuine loves me. I tried the second time because I was hard naturally again. This time my dick shrunk.

She see me on Mon, Tues, and Weds because of her studies and of course she meets her friends as well. It good because I can meet mine friends as well. It's sort of perfect.

I get hard through out the day thinking of her, then my ED kicks in. I'm hard now because of the love.

Is the phone conversations okay and I'm worrying too much?

Should I let her know while on the phone, I'm getting turned on too much and need to have a normal conversation.

I'm not sure what to do, I'm so frustrated : /

I'm re wiring properly or am I taking steps back????

Am I doing all the right things????

If I'm doing the right things and will make more progress, I'm happy. If I'm doing the wrong things and making things worst then I'm unhappy