is dating a virgin good for a reboot?

Discussion in 'Dating during a Reboot' started by bayern12, Jul 4, 2018.

  1. bayern12

    bayern12 Fapstronaut

    Maybe if I will date a virgin I will have more confidence in bed. Thoughts?
  2. LilD

    LilD Fapstronaut

    Err... No.

    How is that supposed to give you more confidence? You feel better about yourself when you see someone worse (in some sense) than you? Do you think it's okay? I'd suggest you do some constructive things to raise your confidence instead of seeking someone to patronize. And I don't like the idea of using other people as tools for fixing your problems, that's called objectification.
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  3. GG2002

    GG2002 Fapstronaut

    Dating whomever is fine so long as you have a significant period of sobriety and are 100 percent honest with her within the first few dates about your addiction. PMO addiction has nothing to do with sex so it’s irrelevant if you date a virgin or not.
  4. lovelyDay

    lovelyDay Fapstronaut

    Well, you don't know until you try, so on your place I would try.
  5. MetaGame

    MetaGame Fapstronaut

    Idk my gf has more expectations because she is a virgin. Not less haha ... Its like she spent years building it up xD. Anyway u can only get confidence by learning and practicing. But also not being so hard on urself. Men still think oh i need to be a stud in bed. Like sure thats nice but its not like this magic thing that fixes things. anyway just be with someone who will be understand and help u learn.

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