Is giving blowjobs during Nofap hardmode allowed?

Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by Bi--boy, Sep 29, 2018.

  1. Bi--boy

    Bi--boy New Fapstronaut

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    Hi, i am male and bi and my question is, if its allowed to giving blowjobs during nofap hardmode. I am on day 40. I think it is ok, because if i dont cum it should be ok. What do you guys think? Already thanks for the ansewers!
     
  2. Personally, I think it's okay. If I had a girlfriend, I would want to give her oral.

    However, here are two things to consider:

    1. How much does it turn you on? If its not a big turn on, then it might not be a big deal. If it is, then that could be a very slippery slope. The reason why many of us need to give up porn is because of the intense arousal that it gives us. If giving blowjobs turns you on like porn does, then isn't it about the same thing? Is it a substitution?
    2. Also, think about what hard mode means to you and why you are doing it. For some it means no porn, masturbation or orgasm, but for others it means no sex as well (AKA monk mode).
    Ultimately its your choice. I hope that you grow from whichever choice you make and congratulations on 40 days!
     
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  3. Sayonara

    Sayonara Fapstronaut

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    Blow away my friend
     
  4. Bi--boy

    Bi--boy New Fapstronaut

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    Thanks for the replies! I think i will stop giving bj for a year because it reeeally turns me on... at least like porn.
     
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  5. Panthera pardus

    Panthera pardus Fapstronaut

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    That sounds good to me, sure it is also important if the Guy is someone you really like or just a Stranger at the Crusingarea
     
  6. Bi--boy

    Bi--boy New Fapstronaut

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    I really love the guy and i am a little bit addicted to blow his penis and get his cum... But still i think i should stop it for a while.
     
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  7. Philomath

    Philomath Fapstronaut

    Do you want to alter your sexual-likes?

    I'm bisexual as well, in an open relationship with a bisexual-girl. While I love giving head, I want to shift and strengthen my interest in her and females (at least that's the theory I'm running with, aha!) So, no PMO can potentially be an opportunity to shake off kinks you don't really want, or build up new ones! So, I guess the real question is - do you still want to keep giving head, or do you want to redirect sexual lust for other things?

    I mean we all want a happy sex-life. So if blowing makes you happy, stick with it :p
     
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