I recently found my husband had contacts and had sex with various women when he was alone in a country where it's easy to get sex (I don't like that country). I know he didn't like to have sex with me. Even when we were together, he said it's tiring. And I knew he preferred M than real sex with me and he was watching porn as well. When I came to this site and I was thinking he might be addicted. Is having sex with different women same as PMO. Is him forgivable? He claims that he loves me. We already have a kid.