I feel that even if you look good, have your life together, and very compassionate if you aren't able to socialize well then that is all for naught. What do you guys think? Do you think it's possible to get (I hate saying get a gf because it sounds like she's a prize or object to obtain) a gf when you're a socially anxious person ? I personally don't think so after my own experiences. Being too shy will make it impossible for you as a guy.