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Is it Relapse? Please tell me

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by sandester, Mar 29, 2018.

  1. sandester

    sandester Fapstronaut

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    Today I am on day 14. I had sex with my girlfriend, Should I Reset my counter ? Is it Relapse ?
     
  2. gingeralan

    gingeralan Fapstronaut

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    it is orgasm but it depends on your goals.

    I don't think it is, but if you are wanting to go hard mode then you should reset. BUT it is your choice.
     
  3. john wheel

    john wheel Fapstronaut

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    I don't think so. NOFAP and a healthy sexually relationship should not be mutually exclusive - although if people want hard mode to mean that then obviously that their choice and I respect that.
     
  4. zakes

    zakes Fapstronaut

    Your counter says no Porn, Masturbation and Orgasm.

    Perhaps reset to Porn and Masturbation only.

    Orgasm included everything including orgasm through sex.

    Remember, not to fall into the trap of edging yet refraining from orgasm.

    But you on the right track to a reboot by only ejuculating through actual sex.

    Well done on your streak.
     
  5. kio_actualized

    kio_actualized Fapstronaut

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    It really depends on what your goal is.
    Depend on your historic and how long you've been addicted to porn.
    Without further information it's hard to tell...
     
  6. sandester

    sandester Fapstronaut

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    Thank you for all your responses. Since I have not seen porn or masturbated. I will keep the counter as of now to keep me motivated. I will take this as a small set back and move further. Last time I relapsed on day 38. This time I want 90.
     
  7. If you have a girlfriend that you're sexually active with, you should have started your counter with Porn and Masturbation only, as I did. You definitely shouldn't feel bad about experiencing orgasm with a person of who you're in a healthy relationship with. Just change your counter, no reason to reset.
     
  8. Your counter says no Porn, Masturbation, no Orgasm. So with that, yes, you relapsed since you did orgasm intentionally.

    However, having consensual sex with somebody you're in an intimate relationship with is not in anyway bad at all. I would change your counter to read just Porn and Masturbation since sex with your lady is completely fine. Hell, it's encouraged.

    Ultimately, I say no, you didn't relapse since what you did was perfectly healthy. Just change your counter and stay away from porn and masturbation. 16 Days is great, keep going!
     

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