You don't take hints, do you? No one here agrees with you, no one here likes you or listen to you. And you still ramble on like a damn fool. What "education" did you claim to have again? Law enforcement? Wank Academy? Phd in Misandric Bullshit Keyboard Warfare? Because I am in medicine, and I can tell you, the thing you're doing here is not mentally sound. A husband that doesn't want monogamy and do not feel like being in a sexual relationship with his wife have the obligation to divorce her and let her be free to pursue her life with someone new. Why are you so into the idea that trapping a woman in a sex and lifeless marriage is ok? Is it some kind of sadistic slave fantasy of yours to deprive someone of what's promised?