I (22M) was talking about being a virgin with some of my friends. Good people, they gave me some advice. I said I was feeling weird because although I really want to have sex, I just can't get myself to go further (kissing for example) with girls I find kind of boring or not feel intimate enough with. They said it was all in my head, but I keep asking myself why would I seek sex in the first place, then? Just for the sexual thrill? They said I was fantasizing too much, but then, why focus on sex? Sex for the sake of sex is the kind of habit I want to avoid like I want to avoid PMO, or at least take it like something else. I feel pressured by society to enjoy, to have sex with as many girls as I can, to "enjoy my youth", but there is this other side of me that just wants to develop himself and seek different experiences than mere sex. Anyone feel the same or can give me some advice? Greetings.