is making love to pillow okay?

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  1. recoome

    recoome Fapstronaut

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    after 10 days of nofap. i couldnt hold it. last night i ended up touching the pillow, then kissing it n hugging it.
    i was about to ejaculate but managed to hold the jizz back n then stopped.
    i guess i should stop making love to pillow.
    but is kissing the pillow equivalent to sex? i mean sex is allowed during pmo, right?
     
  2. Darkstar 22.84

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    No, no sex is allowed with another human being.
    Only sex with inanimate objects.
    That is how we reproduced for centuries.

    By all means, cheat on that pillow!
    Fuck the living hell out of the couch. Take it to the next level.

    Dude, could you picture presenting that thing to the parents and go like:
    'Hey, this is her.My soulmate. I want to spend my life with her.'

    No? Then stop doing it.
     
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  3. recoome

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    Oh lol nice reply. Marrying the pillow...haha....yep will have to stop that..
     
  4. AntiqueRevolverGuy

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    Do you have a no masturbation goal or something? If so, then don't do ANYTHING sexual.
    So of course, making love to the pillow is a hinderment.
    But if you're kissing and loving it because you're lonely, that's a different story.
    Having a liking for intimacy and not having it can be hard at times. But if you know where to look, you'll find it. The people you surround yourself by will make a difference. Don't surround yourself by Pro-PMO people. Those people are terrible to surround yourself by.
     
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  5. Icyweb

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    Yeah, making love to a pillow is essentially masturbation without your hands. I would say the same goes for kissing it etc.
     
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  6. recoome

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    Thanks for the replies. I ended up relapsing regarding the m. but won't watch p. just had a cold shower to get rid of those urges. and it worked.
     
  7. programer

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    I think you are Crazy. I used to do that. That is M&O. Stop it man.
     
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  8. teejay12

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    Stop it bro!!It is stupid, better tell yourself "YOU ARE BETTER THAN THAT", the next time you get an urge!
     
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  9. darkenedverse

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    First, congratulations reaching 10 days! Despite the question of whether you need to reset or not, let's celebrate that you were able to get to 10 days.

    Second, only you can determine if you break the rules. You set the boundaries because you're the only person who has to live with the consequences. It all depends on your goals. Your purpose, though, is to match your actions with the NoFap lifestyle that you are pursuing. As you continue, you will come across new situations and questions, so always make your decision based on this question: Did what I just do move me closer or further away from the NoFap person that I want to be?

    Lastly, congratulations again on 10 days!
     
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  10. recoome

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    I didn't like when u called me crazy. I had a question thus asked.
     
  11. Vicky2806

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    No it is not okay.Making love with pillow is the sign of something wrong going in your brain.Abstain such things and you will grow normally substaintially.I believe in your motives to rid PMO.Good Luck!
     
  12. recoome

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    Thanks. I had a string urge to bingr porn but didn't relapse there.
     
  13. recoome

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    Thanks. I had a strong urge to binge porn but didn't relapse there.
     
  14. Vicky2806

    Vicky2806 Fapstronaut

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    Yeah.You need to fight urges for 18 days.And 4 months to wash out dopmine.Stay strong for 18 days Brother.
     
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  15. programer

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    Well, sorry the but that is M&O. You can stop it.
     
  16. recoome

    recoome Fapstronaut

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    Yes i understand.
     
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  17. Aubree

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    I'd say m is better than p , but both worse than abstaining. what you described though is called "edging" and no humping a pillow isn't sex but it is considered edging which my conflict with your goals give or take
     
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