Is my problem the same as those who experienced and got past PIED?

Discussion in 'Porn Addiction' started by Ornstein, May 6, 2018.

  1. Ornstein

    Ornstein Fapstronaut

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    Hi I'm Ornstein just a question really about PIED and my experience with it. Possible trigger warning but I really doubt that it will.

    So I've watched porn pretty consistently for about 7 years, and in the past several years all of my real life sexual encounters seem to follow a pattern where I am very attracted to my partner and "ready to go" and yet my p***s is just completely flaccid, with the occasional hard moment that barely lasts long enough to use for anything. I just wonder if this complete impotence, when actually I can achieve a very hard member when watching porn, is typical of porn users and those pre-Nofap. I really want above all else to get over my addiction and the effects of it and I suppose just to know I'm on the right track now with no PM (O with my partner where possible but probably not that often) but mostly that this is where others began their journey too, with complete flaccid during sensual activities.

    So tell me, does my current situation resemble the starting point for the rest of you fapstronauts?
    If so tell us all about it, and if not comment anyway so we can share what it was like before that first decision to nofap and how you're getting on now :)
     
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  2. Yes. Before NoFap, I was very hard for porn, almost totally flaccid with women. That is pretty much the definition of PIED.
     
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  3. Gooding

    Gooding Fapstronaut

    Yes. This is PIED.
    After my reboot PIED is gone. I still have poor longevity (my counselor's words) and need to work on it
     
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  4. Ornstein

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    Thanks for the reply Immature, it's good to see that others have gotten over this as it gives me hope :)
     
  5. Ornstein

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    Is lasting longer a benefit of even longer doing nofap?
     
  6. Gooding

    Gooding Fapstronaut

    I always had poor longevity. But again until 29 I never had sex, frequently masturbated. So I was trained to cum fast and finish the business. Never had a great sex life even after that.
    So I believe only solution to my poor longevity is lot of practice. My counselor said that same. And for that I need lot of consistent sex, which I doubt is possible in my marriage.
    So the only solution is self-practice.
     
  7. Ornstein

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    I see, I too suffer from quickness due to years masturbating. However when I was doing things with my first proper partner I did find that the more we did things the longer I lasted so there's hope, be careful however because iv heard that edging isn't good for rebooting and that seems the common practice for lengthening duration on your own.
     
  8. Gooding

    Gooding Fapstronaut

    M itself is not likely to cause longevity issue. It depends the method.
    Yes I am aware of it. That is why I am researching right now...

    I have a way to track my PA health... And very conscious about it
     
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  9. Ornstein

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    That's good :) I wish you the best of luck in your journey.
     
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