is semen retention give you woman attraction (pls share your story honestly)

Discussion in 'Abstinence, Retention, and Sexual Transmutation' started by dvin, Jul 2, 2021.

  1. TheCarver

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    kinda really hard to do that when you have a high sex drive. only reason i made it to a month was because i was anti anxiety medicine that lowered my libido a little but then it weared off i guess, and here i am.
     
  2. Khan_Jee

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    speaking of high sex drive I used to have sexual fantasies about naked women when I was 4 years old and I used get triggered even by the sight of niples of a cow (an actual cow or goat or buffalo)
    but you gotta do what you gotta do if you want to survive . its all your choice .
     
  3. TheCarver

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    kinda easier for everyone to say on here. but for us single people, it isn’t easy especially in my case where im never gonna get a relationship.
     
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  4. Khan_Jee

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    look . its not easier . you have to admit that. but you have to do it . for your own survival .
    and yeah ... we are not allowed to get into premarital relationships so forget about that . just count your days till marriage and start your reboot so that your wife gets a "real man" . I am single and have been all my life so I know what you mean but before we get married we have to reboot ourselves of this dirt
     
  5. inusualguy

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    i'd say is more the confidance you got back after quitting masturbation to talk to somebody else specially woman... and they get to notice that... more than something special because you have more semen than usual...
     
  6. josedelamuerte

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    Abstinence by itself will not make an unattractive man attractive. But for me, all other things being equal - I see a noticeable shift in attraction from the opposite sex starting about 3 weeks in. It could be that being hornier and deprived of my "usual" sex life (porn) makes me more alert and open to the signals which have been there the entire time. Either way, it's a nice ego-boost, but nothing I'd want to act out on before my PIED subsides, and that seems to take a solid 1.5-2 months of complete abstinence.
     
  7. TheCarver

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    you read my mind. i am muslim.
     
  8. Khan_Jee

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    yes . I am a muslim too . Thats why I said I know how you feel about being single . you just have to live with the "horny energy" till your nikah .
     
  9. inusualguy

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    what does the Coran say about masturbating and porn?? juat for curiosity... i'm a beliver but not muslim
     
  10. Khan_Jee

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    It is very very much against immorality, It strictly orders women to not let a naamehram (a man other than husband , father ,brother ,son or uncles) see one inch of her hair. so performing in porn then you can imagine when a religion orders women to completely cover themselves and orders men to lower their gaze when they see a woman passing by(and that woman is neither wife nor sister mother or aunt) .By lowering gaze means dont even look at her . and we have a belief that when womens hair are exposed all the angels(the ones for her protection against the children of satan) leave her and only satans remain with her.

    and masturbation in islam is equivalent to fornication and the hand will bear children on the day of judgment and everyone will know that this was the man who did it with his hand .

    Islam is so much against PMO
     
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  11. depeche69

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    I think in a hadith the prophet said, that a single men has to life in celibacy and perform fasting until Allah gives you a women.

    Sahih al-Bukhari 5066
    We were with the Prophet (ﷺ) while we were young and had no wealth. So Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) said, "O young people! Whoever among you can marry, should marry, because it helps him lower his gaze and guard his modesty (i.e. his private parts from committing illegal sexual intercourse etc.), and whoever is not able to marry, should fast, as fasting diminishes his sexual power."
     
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  12. TheCarver

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    and if i choose not to? since i been starved of a relationship for so long i might end up doing it. because unlike most muslims i dont live in the stone age.
     
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  13. Khan_Jee

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    nobody cares anyways .you would be just another muslim with loose character if thats what you want .
     
  14. TheCarver

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    well, on the flip side im never getting laid anyway. so not like any of it matters. do you know anything about tinder?
     
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  15. Mr. Rosco

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    people like me more in general
     
  16. pump20

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    Well, yes in my dream while I was sleeping the other night. I was encountered by 6 black females in car flirting at me by giving blow kisses. If we can't get female attraction in real world, we can get them in a dream world. I wasn't expecting that.
     
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  17. inusualguy

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    wow bro i see!!
    you know iam really part of any religion but i know much about god and the bible and somethings about the torah and in that the woman's hair is also secred or holy.. but it's more like a symbolism.. and also the torah orders woman to dress in a way they dont show up their parts.. and if you see as your commandments that works very fine to avoid men being promiscous to a woman as they dont encourage them by showing up skin and so...
     
  18. inusualguy

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    dont ever forget the real world is the one that counts
     
  19. inusualguy

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    you can buddy i mean if you put it as your main goal you will, one of the main problems is that you thinkin you wont ever... but just focus on improving and ppl (woman too) will come to ya eventually
     
  20. inusualguy

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    they dont live on stone age they live under and kinda mixed-up and misundertood way of living the God of Abraham told their ppl how to live
     

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