Is there anyone who is having anxiety for girls and H-OCD/ asexual thoughts

JHT98 · Feb 12, 2018

Is there anyone with a porn addiction who is thinking he is maybe asexual, because he doesn't need sex, only PMO'ing.
I'm attracted to women, but when there comes the moment a girl wants to go to bed with me, I become really anxious. Maybe it's performance anxiety? But I don't have real sex interest, only PMO.

The HOCD is also struggling at that moments. 'When I ignore this girls to have sex with them, Maybe I'm gay or something?'

What do you guys think?
Are there people here, who had the same struggles as me before rebooting? I'm no still a virgin anymore. I had sex with 1 girl, but then I had a ED. After then I got H-OCD. Now I have lot of anxiety to contact girls. I ignore them since now. I have a lot of anxiety. Performance anxiety, social anxiety to girls, Please help me!!!

Deleted Account · Jun 1, 2018

You need an understanding gf.

aerokus · Jun 1, 2018

It does sound like a fear of failure/performance anxiety. Going on NoFap forces you to seek out real women rather than the easy route of PMO'ing 4-5 times a day, and it increases your confidence. If a streak of 60 days doesn't reduce your anxiety and drive you to find a real partner, perhaps see a doctor about your anxiety. I don't know much about H-OCD, but if you're attracted to women as you said, I wouldn't let it trouble you too much. Your brain will always mess with you and make you think thoughts you don't want to think.

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