Is this a Relapse??

She is my classmate by the way

Thanks i will tell you how it went

 

Ur post is full of triggers. Start with cleaning up ur language before u expect anyone to take u seriously.

Mateo

 

Most ppl on here are fellow addicts just like urself who don't know any better either. There are only a few ppl who actually have the knowledge and experience to help u here.

Best
Mateo

 

I guess it went okay
She was feeling good I suppose
She responded friendly
I made her laugh
I complented her two times that she looks good
I also said that its cool to chat with her

I think it went okay
We texted for 2 hours
From 2 am to 4 am
She replied slowly, sometimes when I texted something she went offline for a while and went online to respond immedtiadly

 

For example:
"So how are you doing you are bed? Xd"
She
"hahahaxd like in a bed"
"show me, in me it is like that:"
Black picture
She said
" here this is the same xd"
Me
"no there is a difference, you are wearing different pyjama than me xd"
She
"Yeah maybe but darkness is the same xd"
Me
"And you probably look better in it than me "
She
"you know, pyjama like pyjama xd"
Me
"yeah but its about a person who wear it "
She
" yes right xd"

 

Haha what do you think ?

 

The clue to your question is in the first letter of the word orgasmed - O. So, you may not have used Porn or Masturbated but you did Orgasm. After three months of total abstinence I do not consider it a concern. However, if you wish to carry on with a hard mode approach, then this was a relapse. If you are OK with partnered sexual stuff in real life, then you can drop down from hard mode to easy mode and just avoid P+M.

 

I'm with @IGY. I'm not worried about it; after all, wasn't sex with real women part of the plan?

 

Seem to remember reading this before, a few times.

No, its not a relapse.

 

Depends on what your goal really is.

And please don't spam the forums. You can start a journal if you wish to keep track of your progress.

 

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Your original question is if getting a blowjob is a relapse. If you are doing hard mode, the answer is yes. If you are doing easy mode the answer is no.

"The O in PMO means the Orgasm caused by Porn and masturbation right??" Not just that. Check hard mode in The Glossary^.

 

Not a relapse but i think you should stop(You make shit harder..)