Ur post is full of triggers. Start with cleaning up ur language before u expect anyone to take u seriously. Mateo
Why? I want a clear situation, so people know my situation and maybe can help me! But sorry if i triggered you with some words..
Most ppl on here are fellow addicts just like urself who don't know any better either. There are only a few ppl who actually have the knowledge and experience to help u here. Best Mateo
I guess it went okay She was feeling good I suppose She responded friendly I made her laugh I complented her two times that she looks good I also said that its cool to chat with her I think it went okay We texted for 2 hours From 2 am to 4 am She replied slowly, sometimes when I texted something she went offline for a while and went online to respond immedtiadly
For example: "So how are you doing you are bed? Xd" She "hahahaxd like in a bed" "show me, in me it is like that:" Black picture She said " here this is the same xd" Me "no there is a difference, you are wearing different pyjama than me xd" She "Yeah maybe but darkness is the same xd" Me "And you probably look better in it than me " She "you know, pyjama like pyjama xd" Me "yeah but its about a person who wear it " She " yes right xd"
The clue to your question is in the first letter of the word orgasmed - O. So, you may not have used Porn or Masturbated but you did Orgasm. After three months of total abstinence I do not consider it a concern. However, if you wish to carry on with a hard mode approach, then this was a relapse. If you are OK with partnered sexual stuff in real life, then you can drop down from hard mode to easy mode and just avoid P+M.
Yes you are right! I am asking again, because im almost at 90 days and i want to know for 100% that i did nothing wrong. Thanks bro!
Yes you are right! But a orgasm with a real girl isnt the same as a orgasm with porn on a screen and your own hand right? I think the O in PMO means the Orgasm caused by Porn and masturbation right??
Depends on what your goal really is. And please don't spam the forums. You can start a journal if you wish to keep track of your progress.
Your original question is if getting a blowjob is a relapse. If you are doing hard mode, the answer is yes. If you are doing easy mode the answer is no. "The O in PMO means the Orgasm caused by Porn and masturbation right??" Not just that. Check hard mode in The Glossary^.
I see a relapse is when you watch porn, start masturbating and then Orgasming. If you dont watch porn, dont masturbate and also dont orgasm with porn an masturbation.. why is it then a relapse??
