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Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Quaresma, Jan 13, 2018.
Go for it bro, its much better than a girl on a screen..
She is my classmate by the way
Thanks i will tell you how it went
Ur post is full of triggers. Start with cleaning up ur language before u expect anyone to take u seriously.
Why? I want a clear situation, so people know my situation and maybe can help me! But sorry if i triggered you with some words..
Most ppl on here are fellow addicts just like urself who don't know any better either. There are only a few ppl who actually have the knowledge and experience to help u here.
Are you one of the people who can help me? Or have some advice?
I guess it went okay
She was feeling good I suppose
She responded friendly
I made her laugh
I complented her two times that she looks good
I also said that its cool to chat with her
I think it went okay
We texted for 2 hours
From 2 am to 4 am
She replied slowly, sometimes when I texted something she went offline for a while and went online to respond immedtiadly
"So how are you doing you are bed? Xd"
"hahahaxd like in a bed"
"show me, in me it is like that:"
" here this is the same xd"
"no there is a difference, you are wearing different pyjama than me xd"
"Yeah maybe but darkness is the same xd"
"And you probably look better in it than me "
"you know, pyjama like pyjama xd"
"yeah but its about a person who wear it "
" yes right xd"
Haha what do you think ?
The clue to your question is in the first letter of the word orgasmed - O. So, you may not have used Porn or Masturbated but you did Orgasm. After three months of total abstinence I do not consider it a concern. However, if you wish to carry on with a hard mode approach, then this was a relapse. If you are OK with partnered sexual stuff in real life, then you can drop down from hard mode to easy mode and just avoid P+M.
I'm with @IGY. I'm not worried about it; after all, wasn't sex with real women part of the plan?
Seem to remember reading this before, a few times.
No, its not a relapse.
Yes you are right! I am asking again, because im almost at 90 days and i want to know for 100% that i did nothing wrong.
Yes you are right! But a orgasm with a real girl isnt the same as a orgasm with porn on a screen and your own hand right? I think the O in PMO means the Orgasm caused by Porn and masturbation right??
Depends on what your goal really is.
And please don't spam the forums. You can start a journal if you wish to keep track of your progress.
Your original question is if getting a blowjob is a relapse. If you are doing hard mode, the answer is yes. If you are doing easy mode the answer is no.
"The O in PMO means the Orgasm caused by Porn and masturbation right??" Not just that. Check hard mode in The Glossary^.
Not a relapse but i think you should stop(You make shit harder..)
I see a relapse is when you watch porn, start masturbating and then Orgasming. If you dont watch porn, dont masturbate and also dont orgasm with porn an masturbation.. why is it then a relapse??