Is this a Relapse??

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Quaresma, Jan 13, 2018.

  1. Quaresma

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    Go for it bro, its much better than a girl on a screen..
     
  2. Rebooter1221

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    She is my classmate by the way
    Thanks :) i will tell you how it went
     
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  3. Quaresma

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    Cool!
     
  4. Mateo89

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    Ur post is full of triggers. Start with cleaning up ur language before u expect anyone to take u seriously.

    Mateo
     
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  5. Quaresma

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    Why? I want a clear situation, so people know my situation and maybe can help me! But sorry if i triggered you with some words..
     
  6. Mateo89

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    Most ppl on here are fellow addicts just like urself who don't know any better either. There are only a few ppl who actually have the knowledge and experience to help u here.

    Best
    Mateo
     
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  7. Quaresma

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    Are you one of the people who can help me? Or have some advice?
     
  8. Rebooter1221

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    I guess it went okay
    She was feeling good I suppose
    She responded friendly
    I made her laugh
    I complented her two times that she looks good
    I also said that its cool to chat with her

    I think it went okay
    We texted for 2 hours
    From 2 am to 4 am
    She replied slowly, sometimes when I texted something she went offline for a while and went online to respond immedtiadly
     
  9. Rebooter1221

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    For example:
    "So how are you doing you are bed? Xd"
    She
    "hahahaxd like in a bed"
    "show me, in me it is like that:"
    Black picture
    She said
    " here this is the same xd"
    Me
    "no there is a difference, you are wearing different pyjama than me xd"
    She
    "Yeah maybe but darkness is the same xd"
    Me
    "And you probably look better in it than me :p"
    She
    "you know, pyjama like pyjama xd"
    Me
    "yeah but its about a person who wear it :D"
    She
    " yes right xd"
     
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  10. Quaresma

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    Hahahaha
     
  11. Rebooter1221

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    Haha what do you think ? :p
     
  12. The clue to your question is in the first letter of the word orgasmed - O. So, you may not have used Porn or Masturbated but you did Orgasm. After three months of total abstinence I do not consider it a concern. However, if you wish to carry on with a hard mode approach, then this was a relapse. If you are OK with partnered sexual stuff in real life, then you can drop down from hard mode to easy mode and just avoid P+M.
     
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  13. bike-wrench

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    I'm with @IGY. I'm not worried about it; after all, wasn't sex with real women part of the plan?
     
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  14. GripLess

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    Seem to remember reading this before, a few times.

    No, its not a relapse.
     
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  15. Quaresma

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    Yes you are right! I am asking again, because im almost at 90 days and i want to know for 100% that i did nothing wrong.
    Thanks bro!
     
  16. Quaresma

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    Yes you are right! But a orgasm with a real girl isnt the same as a orgasm with porn on a screen and your own hand right? I think the O in PMO means the Orgasm caused by Porn and masturbation right??
     
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  17. Depends on what your goal really is.

    And please don't spam the forums. You can start a journal if you wish to keep track of your progress.
     
  18. Your original question is if getting a blowjob is a relapse. If you are doing hard mode, the answer is yes. :oops: If you are doing easy mode the answer is no. :)

    "The O in PMO means the Orgasm caused by Porn and masturbation right??" Not just that. Check hard mode in The Glossary^.
     
  19. KariusD

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    Not a relapse but i think you should stop(You make shit harder..)
     
  20. Quaresma

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    I see a relapse is when you watch porn, start masturbating and then Orgasming. If you dont watch porn, dont masturbate and also dont orgasm with porn an masturbation.. why is it then a relapse??
     

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