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Is this a relapse?

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by challenge, Jan 24, 2014.

  1. challenge

    challenge Fapstronaut

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    If I get a legit body massage (back, buttocks, legs), which causes me to involuntarily climax... would I have to restart my timer ?
     
  2. Wannariseabove

    Wannariseabove Fapstronaut

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    Ehhhhh that's a difficult question. It really comes down to personal restraint. The problem I see is that it could cause a trigger and you end up reset. I would say it's best to stay away unless it's your wife, girlfriend, etc.

    We need to abstain from triggers and we are usually ok. I played around with some non traditional triggers and ended up having to reset after 45 days. I was let down dude. Don't make the same mistake I did.
     
  3. challenge

    challenge Fapstronaut

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    So basically you think if the body massage causes me to orgasm (without any penis/hand contact), I should restart ?
     
  4. Angriff

    Angriff Fapstronaut

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    How could that even happen??
     
  5. Caveat Emptor

    Caveat Emptor Distinguished Fapstronaut

    There was a similar thread like this a couple weeks ago. I would say it's not a relapse if you didn't get the massage in order to climax. If you did, it's almost the equivalent of going to a prostitute. Don't replace porn/masturbation/orgasm with massage/orgasm. That defeats the purpose.

    That being said, you should probably stop getting massages (unless it's a gf, like WRA said) until you've gone through a full reboot. You don't want your brain using it do replace porn. You want a gf, life accomplishments, etc to replace porn.
     
  6. PsychicCharlie

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    Don't want to make you feel down but its basically a restart because its the same of masturbating. Good thing you didn't watch porn though or do it more than once then it would get harder.
     

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