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Discussion in 'Porn Addiction' started by christian17, Oct 31, 2019.

  1. Oct 31, 2019 #1
    christian17

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    Hi
    A friend and me like to jerk off each other. We are both hetero but i think i am a little bit bi. We dont see it as something romantic, we see it as a sexual joy. We watch porn while doing it because he says it would be weird for him to look at my face while trying to ejaculate. My question is: Does porn still have an negative impact on my life if i watch it during a sexual act?
    I think if a girl would ask you to watch porn with her while jerking you off you would definitely do it, wouldnt you?
    So its basically the same for me. But on the other hand i still get a high dosis of porn. So what to do?

    P.S. Sorry for bad english
     
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  2. Oct 31, 2019 #2
    dzigi

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    Cut it off. It is extremly bad wether you jerk off or play with someone while watching. Stop it before that garbage (porn) caused serious problems in your brain
     
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  3. Nov 1, 2019 #3
    phwrancesco

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    Don't want to sound salty but heterosexual guys don't do this things.
     
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  4. Nov 4, 2019 #4
    Homelander

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    You should really stop this unless you are truly having feelings for this "friend" otherwise this will lead you to a world of pain and sexual disorders later on.
     
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  5. Nov 4, 2019 #5
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    Nope. That's not my type of girl. I'd be 100% focused on her and I would want her to be 100% focused on me.
     
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  6. Nov 4, 2019 #6
    Fallacious D

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    Also this
     
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  7. Nov 4, 2019 #7
    christian17

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    Hmm, I’m sure that I am bisexual now, and I think he might be too. But we would never have feelings for each other. Is it really that bad to have a F+?
     
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  8. Nov 4, 2019 #8
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    There's a spectrum. Not everyone is on the exterior right or left side on it.

    From a recovery-standpoint watching porn is watching porn. Even if you do it on the ISS with a space-suit on (I guess that would cost millions of dollars and the NASA would not be amused). Think of it: what happens when you're special friend leaves? You're stuck with the porn. At the end of the day you're dealing with a porn addiction.

    Ask yourself!
    Since you're only 16 I like to include: ask a trustfull person. It's difficult to resolve such issues only online.

    All the best!
    ice
     
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  9. Nov 4, 2019 #9
    christian17

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    Thank you all, nofap.com is much better for life questions than many questions forums
     
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    :D
     
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  11. Nov 4, 2019 #11
    Homelander

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    I never ever told anybody this but I did some sexual experimentation with two friends when I was about 9 years old.We would masturbate each other.
    For so many years these acts troubled & haunted my mind letting me think I was gay.

    Later on I discovered that many boys and girls had similar sex experimentations, and it does not say anything about you. I was just a stupid kid playing around.
     
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