Is this reset??

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by fatmaanaya9455, May 26, 2019.

  1. fatmaanaya9455

    fatmaanaya9455 Fapstronaut

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    On day 18..... since 2-3 days I was doing little bit of fantasizing (just 1-2 mins ) and eveey time I tries to control it....... And today I was browsing youtube and a good looking actress came ... then I opened more of her videos..(not sexual).. just her interviews.. and did little bit lusting..... And then in the night I had erotic dream and ejaculated in dream ( was half awake at the time of orgasm)........ NOW i am feeling like my streak is over.......IS IT RESET ???.
     
  2. Reborn_

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    Not a reset
    But next time, don't open the youtube videos.
     
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  3. Promo

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    Brush I'm so sorry your streak has ended because you open more of her YouTube videos and you fantasize about her your dopamine rate increases without you knowing actually so at night so at night you grow sexual urge and ejaculate I'm so sorry young reboot has ended you have to start all over again
     
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  4. fatmaanaya9455

    fatmaanaya9455 Fapstronaut

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    But I dont think.....THAT dopamine was anywhere equal to watching any hot video... because whenever I watch any arousing video I immedietly feel horniness and and urge to fap... but That did not happen in above scenerio....
     
  5. Promo

    Promo Fapstronaut

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    Your streak is over and that's all.but you can keep deceiving yourself.. Your body will tell later
     
  6. The Dave

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    Nocturnal emissions are an involuntary biological function outwith our concious control.
    I wouldnt call it a reset because you did refrain from P and M.
     
  7. Yeah if you came, it’s over. You can try and lie to yourself and say you didn’t relapse. But your only stopping yourself from overcoming this addiction.
    Because if you don’t reset, your gonna think it’s fine to fantasise to the point of cumming. And you’ll do it again and again till you start using porn and masturbating again
     
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  8. The Dave

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    Nonsense.
    The addiction is chronic and compulsive PMO which results in danaging behaviour. An involuntary bodily function Is none of the above. Like saying drooling in your sleep is a concious choice.
     
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  9. He fantasised, willingly, to the point of ejaculation. That’s a relapse, I’m sorry. He said he saw a triggering video on YouTube, and was thinking about it at night.
     
  10. The Dave

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    Wet dreams are not induced by watching youtube videos. Men and women have been having wet dreams since time immemorial. You can have a wet dream without having a single carnal thought, its an involuntary biological function, like urinating or defecating.
     
  11. He didn’t say it was a wet dream, he was half awake, fantasising, meaning he was purposely stimulating his brain with those erotic thoughts to the point that caused him to ejaculate.
     
  12. The Dave

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    Dont be that fella, he said he was partially awake not fapping away like a horny demon monkey! Again, infrequent involuntary nocturnal emissions are a healthy normal biological function. This is just holier than thou nonsense.
     
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  13. fatmaanaya9455

    fatmaanaya9455 Fapstronaut

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    Yeah... I was not willingly fapping.... I said ...I was having sexual dream ...and in the dream when I was about to ejaculate.... I semi woke up during orgasm........But I think that this sexual dream may be due to my fantasy during day time.......Is it worth a reset ???
     
  14. fatmaanaya9455

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    I also dont think that a fantasy(which I was trying to avoid) gives dopamine rush equal to purposefully watching any hot video..... ... I know fantasy Is bad.. but does it give same dopamine rush..????
     
  15. The Dave

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    Im no authority but unless you either deliberately PMO'd or MO'd then its not a reset in my book. Thinking about sex will happen, youre a man, just dont linger on it.
     

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