Is this what I needed ?

[Challengerman]

I’ve had this certain fetish that has developed over time and I don’t feel ashamed of it but I’d rather not go around telling people. So basically I wanted to not fully eradicate said fetish but I want to vary myself. I’ve fapped to this fetish for so long it’s the only thing I can get turned on by. The thought of vanilla sex doesn’t turn me on and give me an erection but with enough stimulation I can get off too it. I was wondering if starting this NoFap journey would help me also be turned on by vanilla sex so I can have a normal sex life without having to bring my fetish into it? Any replies would be much appreciated!

 

[1ANDDONE]

There is really only one way to know, but if you do it, I mean REALLY do it, your life will be changed. You need to do the hard 90, which is 90 days no porn, no MO, no O, no sex, and avoiding sexual thoughts as much as possible. You have to train your brain not to expect the dopamine high you are using whatever you are using to get. You have to rebalance your brain.

Easily said, difficult to do.

Peace.

 

[RichardP]

I feel you on that one. Having gone though the journey, the thing i never understood is porn was a need, porn turned the idea of sex into a need. Need being the feeling of being enough. I like women in a very genuine and connected way now. I need nothing from them but i like them. Ask yourself if you like them or want something from them.

Not sure if this makes sense but lmk if it helped.