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Isolation

Discussion in 'Loneliness' started by oldsurfer, Jan 27, 2023.

  1. Jan 27, 2023 #1
    oldsurfer

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    People say to me 'oh you are a loner' or 'you are a hermit'. Not true, I am friendly, but people choose not to hang with me. I have no doubts I struggle with isolation. When you stop working it happens. Unfortunately porn and porn subs, keep me stuck there.I live alone in an isolated rural area. Not much neighbour interaction. When I lived in the town I had lots of people to chat with. This is a tough gig, but I am persisting. I listen to music and follow up on old friends. I have a dog. Peace brothers. ✌️
     
    oldsurfer, Jan 27, 2023
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  2. Jan 27, 2023 #2
    Gabriel Knight

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    Don't be bothered by it, it is better to have few good quality people or none, than dozen of idiots that will rob you of your life energy.
    edit typo:
    Just don't give a damn! :)
     
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  3. Jan 27, 2023 #3
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    I'm like that also, I live in a remote area. Also a loner. What I feel is that porn makes me more lonely than I'm. Watching porn affects a loner more than those who are surrounded by people. So be careful.
     
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  4. Jan 28, 2023 #4
    oldsurfer

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    I have never felt ok with being alone. Seeing those with gf, wives and families. But just today I decided, ok I am a loner. And you know, that's ok.
     
    oldsurfer, Jan 28, 2023
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  5. Jan 28, 2023 #5
    oldsurfer

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    Thank you, your comment helped me feel stronger, about who I am. I am a loner, and that's ok.
     
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  6. Jan 28, 2023 #6
    oldsurfer

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    Yes, I know what you mean. It can give us a distorted view of others and the world
     
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  7. Jan 28, 2023 #7
    Gabriel Knight

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    You re welcome my man, just keep on rollin'! :)
     
    Gabriel Knight, Jan 28, 2023
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  8. Jan 28, 2023 #8
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    I am also like you. I'm ok with myself. I like other people as well. But can't express myself that much.
     
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  9. Jan 28, 2023 #9
    LOSEmyselftoSAVEmyself

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    You're probably better off. Take a look at the people out there. They worship things that give them no value. They throw away their best assets. They memorize the details of fools. Is this you? Probably not. You're here.

    Or you can be that way. Then you can mingle with the worms. Press buttons on social media.

    Accept yourself as you are.
     
    LOSEmyselftoSAVEmyself, Jan 28, 2023
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