Issues with women

Im no expert on this subject though I can relate as well. I've never had a properly romantic relations with women. But your in a better position than I am, you have a well paying job than me so thats a plus point ( haha).

Naveen, I understand the frustration n the confusion. I know when I was growing up I couldnt put my head around how come some guys have all the luck n make it look easy while im still luckless ( no fair =). So what I did was instead of taking advice from men, I spoke to much older women ( grandmothers to be exact ). The first thing they told was "dont waste your time with women these days ". Perhaps not the advise u and I nd to hear, so I googled for some insights. You know there is so much out there on improving your prospects that you can read and digest for yourself.

The laws of attraction are pretty much still influenced by the primal part of the brain. Which probably explains why some men have it their way. There is something in their body language, choice of words, good looks ( dang ) that women automatically find atttractive, even when the dude is a complete a****le. I know a guy who read a book on body language and applied what he learned and more succsefull now.

Give it a try. But bear in mind dont go overboard. Take it from me that 'NICE' doesnt work. Women these days are independent. They will take advantage of u if you are to cheap so thread cautiously ( advise from my sister ).

Im happily going about my life single. No gal, no problem. Single life still the best for me. Considering all the infidelities and cheating among both genders, im glad im avoiding all that.

Peace

 

Hi Naveen,

As an Australian I can sympathize with you about aussie women. They always seem to be attracted to either beer-drinking, sport types or superficial LAD types.

I can't give you much advice. Being more assertive is all I could recommend. You said yourself that you make others more comfortable at your expense, practicing assertiveness in your life will change how others see you.

 

You might need a Lamborghini. No girls can say no to a dude that drives a Lamborghini.

 

Be sure to fill it up first..hahaha

 

First off ,you have to develop your inner self esteem and inner confidence before you get with any women. If you don't the first girl you date will just fuck up your mind. The women putting you in the friendzone now are doing you a favor. If you are really that needy for attention and sitting on a healthy income , golddigger will eat you alive. And not in a good way.

Be proud of yourself. You have accomplished a lot of great things just by being a part of this NOfap journey. For most men this is the hardest thing in the world to do, quitting porn.

You have a lot to be proud of. Be proud of you Indian ancestors but don't be limited by your race. Be yourself. Don't try to be Aussie or Indian or Indian-Aussie to get women. Just develop a unique style of your own and be 100% REAL. You feel inadequate because you've been brainwashed by other people. Just dig deep within so you won't feel like you need a White (or Black or Red) girlfriend to validate your existence in Australia. You will have so much self esteem girls will come up to you. You will have so much inner confidence that women of any color would be LUCKY to be your girlfriend. Your charisma and strength will be attractive to every woman you meet in Australia when you believe in yourself.

 

This is very true as a black male who constantly pmo to a specific category I'm not gonna state whicih it's pretty obvious lol I use fiend to be with white women and I wanted to date white women I was brainwashed to think that if those women were attracted to me it would give me a sense of validation but that's not true after being on NoFap I see the beauty inothers regardless of skin color and I think part of my lack of self confidence was me being a black male it would be hard to attract the women I wanted which is a lie because I've been told by many different women that they find me attractive but porn brainwashed me into thinking this way and after 8 months I slowly see all those things I believed were all ego based and each day I don't pmo the closer I am to my true self and the most high