It angers me as young men we can't enjoy our sexuality

In a time in our lives where we should be filled with sexual vigor, energy, drive and passion, we instead are filled with anxiety, depression, a limp lifeless dick, the inability to be turned on by real women, doubt and sexual dysfunctions. It fills me with anger that at 21 years old, I can't enjoy a normal healthy sex life. Last week I had a beautiful chick text me, probably wanting sex, but I didn't respond, because I know she and I would both be disappointed. I feel completely robbed of something that should be a main drive in my life. For thousands and thousands of years, men have done amazing things because of their love and passion for women. Sex is suppose to be one of the greatest things a human can naturally enjoy. For men in their 20s especially, we should be able enjoy this aspect of our lives and use sex and relationships with women as a driving force to do great things.

When we have a girl we love and can please sexually, or even just know that we can have sex with any girl without having to worry about sexual dysfunction, we can feel calm and comfortable in our lives. Sex is suppose to be relaxing and enjoyable. Because of porn it is completely impossible. I have PIED. I have questioned my sexual orientation because I have trouble maintaining an erection if I get one at all. I am confused, lost. I know some people will say, girls and sex shouldn't be everything. But for a man, it is what drives our self confidence and self esteem. If we know who we are sexually, and that we don't have to worry about erectile dysfunction when we get in bed with a beautiful girl, it feeds our male ego. Everything seems right in the world. And it just hasn't for me in the last couple of years...