Really, I've got it good. My husband has agreed to stop looking at porn and let me lock his phone because he loves me and doesn't want to hurt me. He's maybe a bit addicted, but not much. It's easy for him to go for months without looking now that he's trying not to look. I should be happy. My concern is that he still reeeeeeally likes porn. Now, I don't expect him to dislike it on the level where he'd be, "Ew, beautiful naked women are icky." But he's still disappointed that he can't have it and that it's not something we will do together. He says he just can't see how sex and love aren't seperate for me. He wonders what the big deal is and says it's just masturbation. I just wish he saw it as a negative thing that would ultimately hurt him and our marriage even if I were to go along with it. I want to be his one and only. I feel like he's just going to resent me for not allowing him what he wants.