I couldn't deal with the lies and the rejection anymore and dealing with someone who couldn't trust themselves either. It had been over 2 months without sex. Being someone who prefers porn over me is just too much and I didn't want to live like that. He said he would try but yet he never did. We were going to couples therapy but she was not well versed in this bc she told him to just cut back. Bad advice. He never joined this forum or attempted to help himself. He had a lot of other issues too which I am sure is not surprising. After 3 years in a bad relationship with someone with so many problems they were bringing me down with them, I had to get out. Don't be afraid to leave! No one deserves to have their own self worth come into question bc they aren't being treated right. It's going to take me a long time to build myself up and be ready to date again.