It's bad when femdom leads you to this.

Discussion in 'Problematic Sexual Behavior' started by Bigwanker, Sep 23, 2019.

  1. Bigwanker

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    Glad I never got into fendom. Seems a little to cucky for me. I dont like being controlled by a woman. Actually I uses to like watching women being choked, spit on and humiliated rather. I do not understand the fendom and findom guys at all. All I can think of is it might be some sort of mommy issue thing with those types of guys. Glad my mom was always healthy towards me... my dad on the other hand was a narcissistic drunk.
     
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  3. Joe1023

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    Sounds a little judgy, dude. Just sayin'. Apologies if it wasn't meant to be, but yeah.
     
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  4. hubbawulf1234

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    Yeah, this type of thing seems totally unhealthy both ways. To treat a person this way is appalling. And to enjoy this treatment...I don't know what to call it.
     
  5. Gvn2Fly

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    Have been addicted into findom and femdom as well but nowhere near this extreme level. I have seen all sorts of videos like this, including guys getting divorced because their domme told them to, selling all furniture to give the money to the domme and sleeping on the floor and the domme monitors your movements at all times with a webcam, eating dog food, beating their own balls and slapping themselves, complete isolation, and a whole lot worse. It's bad, but I can see how things escalate. Many of these guys have extremely low self esteem and mental illness to begin with, and are further being manipulated by these women. I'm of the belief that an addict can't really consent to all this. These "findommes" are just all around horrible people.
     
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    Dude!Ive got a friend with a femdom fetish!He was really happy when i told him about nofap,but he is nothing like what you describe! He is actually pretty masculine looking(muscular) and he has a lot of self-esteem! Or at least pretends to have...and he is pretty smart! He told me it was by mistake that he stumbled upon femdom porn,he saw some foot stuff before so that might have had something to do with why he was addicted to it but no!The problem is not the people who watch it!The problem is these videos existing in the beginning!Anything can become a habit if it triggers dopamine or oxitocin release so the problem is still porn!
     
  7. Orest

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    you guys almost always have the same story...Narcissistic drunk dad beats mom and then the son becomes a sexual sadist...like why?If your mother was so good to you,why do you wanna punish her or women? My father's a deadbeat...just saying...
     
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  8. AllNamesUsed

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    This nigga eating beans!
     
  9. hubbawulf1234

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    Agreed! I believe the answer depends on whether you have a religious inclination or not.
     
  10. ultrafabber

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    Hold on a second, does FINdom mean financial domination? Like femdom with a twist?
     
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    Yeah it's femdom which means female domination, and findom which means financial domination.

    I'd say the majority of women who are involved in femdom will do findom. I'd actually say findom is more popular than femdom.

    I mean women who are proper dominatrix's are going to charge money for their sessions anyway. But what if part of the fetish is just giving them money for absolutely nothing? This will probably be these women's most favourite thing, because like I said they're basically getting money for nothing.

    Actually on social media particularly on tw there is a huge growing number of women who worldwide who aren't even proper dominatrix's who are engaging in findom online on tw. Men literally sending them money for nothing, and all these women do is put up attractive images of them self, videos of them self ext. They're doing teasing and even degrading acts in the videos towards these men and being paid for it online. Even some of these men are just sending them money literally for nothing at all, simply because it's part of the fetish.

    But these women are sometimes even going and meeting these men at cash lines and taking their money, spitting at these men and degrading them ext. These men are taking them shopping and buying them things ext.

    But these women are not even proper dominatrix's. They're making a lot of easy easy money for next to nothing.

    Naturally they're going to like it.

    The thing is these men have developed these types of fetish's from the internet because the have escalated to this. We know how this has happened to these men. These women won't have a clue how that works though, and they probably wouldn't even care even if they did understand it.

    But they will just think it's stupid pathetic idiots throwing their money away on them. But these men are being turned on beyond belief from this because they have developed an extreme porn induced fetish.

    It's dangerous to be honest.
     
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