Its not God's fault

What you need to do is put all your energy in actualizing your own full potential in a spiritual life with God and accept and fully explore your vocation as a chaste single man. Like any vocation, yours too should be outward directed - open to helping and serving others and giving of yourself in some ministry or volunteer work at least. Accept being single and view it as a vocation and way of life. It is God's will for you at this time. Then if there is another vocation that is out there for you (like a committed relationship), it will come to you when you're no longer even looking for it. And, on top of that, you will be fully ready for it, having made the most out of your current "single" vocation: it all sets out a foundation for any other relationship that may come along - where you will not be entering such a relationship out of neediness or codependency but in a position of strength, self-esteem, and established values, which may just be what is needed to draw your spiritual mate to yourself sometime down the road. And, if not or until then, you still follow the vocation that you're already in with full gratitude and fidelity. Don't wait for your life to start, in other words. Live what has been given to you now to the full, and this will beget other fruits in your life.

 

Loser, you're a loser. Are you feeling sorry for yourself? Well you should be cause you are dirt. You make me sick, you big baby.