It's the guys around me watching me...that throw my game off and cause a disgusting combination of anxiety/anger and hatred ...and a feeling of violence, which I constantly fight to ignore...and which takes energy, which pisses me off, and which are diametrically opposed to he feelings of relaxed love, attraction or focus .... when I am approaching, talking to or hitting on a(n) attractive female, in a public space. It's like I can feel them sitting there just hating...I also feel a threat. Does anyone else feel this? How do you deal with it? Why can't people just be decent human beings. I would never run a guys d**k in the dirt just to get a girl, and I also realize hating someone else isn't going to improve my game... what's with these guys? It is somehow like a romantic approach gets turned into a fight, just because of the presence of these knuckleheads around. I try to ignore it but I can't. It's really, really distracting. ...I imagine how much of this is just imagined, how much every guy feels this??..is this just part of being a guy? I really hate it. Why can't I ever just hit on a girl in peace, without the hornets flying all around constantly... I feel like I always somehow have to look over and see who's watching me hit on a girl, sure enough, it always is some guy sat there - staring burning holes through me like he wants to kill me. ... just because I'm doing what he can't or won't. I wish I didn't look, but the threat is real. It's sort of like being in the room with a 300 pound grizzly, you're going to make sure you feel safe. I REALLY hate this problem. Guys How do you Deal with this problem.