Something I just wanted to say. If you're a virgin, there's nothing wrong with you! It is time our society STOP measuring manhood by the number of notches on your bedpost. There is so much more to being a man than that. In fact, all it means is that you are in a position to give someone something that is really special. I'm 27 and I am a virgin, and I am not ashamed! I spent years thinking there was something wrong with me. I felt that I was a loser because I couldn't get laid like so many other guys around me were doing. However, now I am just determined to find the right person for me. I want my first time to be as special as possible, so I no longer try to pick up women for one night stands. I recently got in shape so I've had opportunities, but I've walked away from them. I want to wait for the right girl to come along. I don't want my first time to be with someone who doesn't mean anything to me, nor I to her. So stop feeling bad about yourself and accept your virginity as something that makes you unique! Don't let it make you feel like less of a person. You'll only gain more confidence in yourself as a result.