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It's ok to look... Right?

Discussion in 'Compulsive Sexual Behavior' started by Lifeisajourney, Oct 11, 2018.

  1. Lifeisajourney

    Lifeisajourney Fapstronaut

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    Ive quit fapping and looking at porn. But no I spend way too much time looking at pictures of internet hookers. I'm just browsing and seeing what's out there. I'll maybe text one and ask her prices. I know I'm not going to do it I can't really afford it. I'd have to have a lot of money to do something like that. And I know even then it's just like fapping even worse in some cases. My problem is looking and just contemplating makes me feel shame. I want to be a strong alpha male. I'm an artist and I should be doing my art Instead I'm looking at these no good nasty bicthes. I think dating sites may wasting my time too as it hard to find a decent woman. That's one of my main goals is too no longer fap and just have sex with my partner if I get horney the natural way. But all I do is waste time with these low quality women. I need to prosue my calling and then iny free time get out and meet a real woman. Advice help?
     
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  2. Jason_Tesla_19

    Jason_Tesla_19 Fapstronaut

    Browsing pictures of hookers, even if not nude, is a P-sub. Even online dating sites can be a P-sub, depending on the person. Some people have issues with social media, too.
     
  3. Dizzy Lotus

    Dizzy Lotus Fapstronaut

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    The link between the title and first post of the thread is unclear.
     
  4. Arghy

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    This behaviour is bad only if it hurts you :)

    It s funny cause i do the same thing even on PMO.
    There s 's no shame to watch good girls but i got the same concerns at this behaviour .I think will stop cause as say well Jason , it s just soft (very soft) P.

    Also they are not "no good nasty bitches" ,but poor victims of a hard capitalist society.
    Pls respect them :)
     
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  5. Meditation Monk

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    Wow, I rarely waste my time with looking at social media at different types of women out there. It's like I do not have a life and I always think about how sad my life is. Sorry but this is how I would feel if I was doing that. I stay busy with my life goals and I do everything on a regular basis. To be fit and in shape everyone needs to have a balance in life.
     
  6. GA93JDeereboy

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    Yea gotta lay off that. I been there doing that sometimes I was ready to go out, sometimes I wasn't. I know I wouldn't myself take money from a woman if she was even willing to pay me. Just look at where u are now? You know where u want to be. So make the choice. Is it me I know this addiction is hard but do we make it harder then it really is? That's just my question
     
  7. David stone

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    Forget woman, you wnt get them. Focus 100% on yur art
     
  8. If you keep doing this, there is a good chance that you will eventually go and see one of those escorts. And that can be an addiction much worse and much more expensive than PMO. Ask me how I know! :(
     
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  9. Lifeisajourney

    Lifeisajourney Fapstronaut

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    What's a p sub?
     
  10. Jason_Tesla_19

    Jason_Tesla_19 Fapstronaut

    Porn substitute. Anything that's "not porn", but stimulating. Things that activate the neural pathways associated with porn. Like, looking at women in swimsuits or lingerie for your own gratification, for example.
     
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  11. Ra's Al Ghul

    Ra's Al Ghul Fapstronaut

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    So let me get this straight, youre just "window shopping" and not seriously going to purchase the services of a hooker?
     
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  12. Lifeisajourney

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    Lol yeah but its a shameful exercise like," why I'm I even looking at this crap?" I could be doing something way more productive.
     
  13. HereAndThere

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    Lol, its distasteful but still funny. Well aint we all then? Until those commie bastards sickle and hammer out everything bad in the world i wont pity hookers. If she can ride dick, she can wash dishes and clean floors, its still a choice. And no, its not ok to look. Im almost certain looking gets dopamine flowing, its just another p-sub.
     
  14. Dizzy Lotus

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    This is not the topic of the thread, but I disagree. The numbers in the Netherlands are very uncertain, but I am pretty sure that over half of the prostitutes in Amsterdam are forced to do the work they do. You might know this already, but pimps often tell their prostitutes that if they leave the business, they'll get their sister or someone else dear to them to replace them. And this isn't even always an empty threat: it does happen that prostitutes do manage to quit, and the pimp gets their sister. As it's so shady, it's very hard to measure, but 10-90% of prostitutes are forced to do what they do by someone else (so not monetary constraints, but threats and the like). I except that number to be way closer to 90% than to 10% in reality, but even if it's 10% it's hundreds of women abused against their will, in Amsterdam alone.
     
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  15. Contentful T

    Contentful T Fapstronaut

    Instead of viewing them as "low quality", and I'm not making any claims about their "quality" as human beings, try to view them as Dizzy has pointed out, victims. Even if they are completely willing to do the "work" they do, I bet their childhood wasn't the best to end up doing such stuff. So in a way they are victims of bad parenting. Now if you tell me you know a hooker who had a great upbringing and a healthy development into a mature, responsible adult, I would have to say rare case.

    And you answered your own question, the title of this thread, towards the end of your post. You don't value doing this, so the logical answer would be no it is not ok as it isn't in line with your values.
     
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  16. HereAndThere

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    Well if disagreeing on the internet about sex worker terminology gets to help those prostitute sisters or gets you to feel good 10-90% of the time thats fine by me.
     

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