It's shameful to be virgin in nowdays?

If you're 20 or younger, nha thats not shameful. If you're older than that...it is. Young men should look for women, if you don't you're a bit wired.

 

Actually from biological point of view they should be a priority?But yeah who cares about science

 

So I guess contraception doesn’t make sense in a biological point of viewer either. And you should have sex only to reproduce.

 

You are correct

 

I am 22 and to be honest I think I should be ashamed of it but I'm not. I see young people lying about it but I really don't see why they do it.

 

It's the opposite in my opinion.

 

"Nowadays" (from the chat title) may be your key word here. What is so great about the twisted, godless, and warped thinking in today's modern society? Nothing. Actually, if you find yourself at odds with the sickened world of today, you're probably onto something very wholesome and healthy. Keep strong and be proud of your values, be your own person, and let your joy come out from behind a false picture placed on manhood. You'll become a very attractive, beautiful soul in doing that, and others will take notice - and you can use that positive and powerful energy to accomplish anything you want. Keep on!

 

Fuck you buddy I can’t afford kids

 

That's just an excuse.What does it mean that you can't afford kids?

 

I never talked about priorities, it's just a mater of a healthy desire. If you don't have it at 25, thats a problem.

 

lol

 

I had to make women a priority for a while to lose my virginity. Nothing else worked besides going on a lot of dates and going a little further each time. Going from no dates to having multiple dates a week was really fun too, even if they rarely led to sex.

 

It's not shameful, it is shamed. They all know that it's messed up to sleep around, pmo and be obsessed with sex, so they shame those of us who don't do it. I say be glad you weren't sucked into it. Trust me being intimate with a girl who then leaves you sucks. [edit: spelling]

 

ahah that's amazing. You're blaming people who accomplish the most natural desire in the world? Lemme say this man: nobody is conspiring against you to make you feel ashamed.

 

Who said anything about conspiring? I have been shamed by so called "friends" because I have been openly against pre marital sex. I am not ashamed of retaining some scrap of purity. I've been offered sex and I have turned it down. Giving in to your base desires is not an accomplishment, it is at the level of a beast.

 

yea, and masturbating to porn is better then sex according to how you think.

I'd like you to realize that the real beast is someone who's jerking off all the time to crappy videos, not who has some healthy sex with a girl.

I deeply respect who is against pre-marital sex, as long as he can stay away from masturbation and porn.

If you can't, you're just finding some excuses because you're afraid.

Women can be judgmental, and approaching them or being in intimacy with them can be challenging. You prefer blame others instead of blaming yourself.

Masturbating to porn is way easier.

 

Because i don't want to be a repressed and frustrated human being. I learned how to control my desire for PMO years ago but i let my desire for real sex with real girls to be fulfilled.

Once again: if you are still PMOing this argument has no meaning at all. What you say is valid only if you have quitted PMO, otherwise is only fear and excuses.

 

word to that. Good thing I quit porn

 

no youre not the only one V in this forum

im virgin and want to save my virginity for my legal spouse in mariage

and im not ashamed at all, waiting for mariage is honorable act in my opinion

 

It’s not shameful to be a virgin I think it’s bad that people in our day and age are glorifying sex in the first place especially considering some of the after orgasm emotions and mental health issues that come sometimes come after