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It's the Destination, not the fucking journey.

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Tonytone, Sep 11, 2017.

  1. Tonytone

    Tonytone Fapstronaut

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    As I mentioned in another post, it's not about the journey, this is about the destination! This isn't a walk in the fucking park, "let's stop and smell the roses", this is a fucking battle! Every fucking day is gonna be tough, get over it and get fucking angry that this evil has consumed our lives for years and decades!! This battle doesn't end, fellas...ladies, this is a daily grind until we Reboot our brains!! One day at a time. One fucking day at a time. Now go do something positive and constructive! Keep your hands off of yourselves! My language may be foul as fuck, but I'm angry, and I think each and every one of you should be angry as well because of what this addiction has done to and taken from all of us!! Much love to all of you warriors!!
     
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  2. seaguy44

    seaguy44 Moderator Assistant

    Well-said Bro! I agree. This addiction is INSANE.
     
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  3. Peter Yorks

    Peter Yorks Fapstronaut

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    Too right. Wish I had fronted up to my addiction long ago. I'm now 5 days into reboot and through the wise words of my partner I even had sex yesterday. I was very unsure of the chaser effect in doing this, and discussed my fears with her. Thankfully I made sure my mind stayed in the moment and didn't drift to porn images to get off. In the past I've had to go back to porn images when having sex to maintain any kind of performance. Not this time and the difference was amazing. Not necessirily recommend this approach for all though!! I'm finding meditation and mindfulness very helpful through all of this.
     
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  4. Denzel889

    Denzel889 Fapstronaut

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    Totally agree. Pmo addiction turned me into the worst person ever. In the person I never thought I could become. But after long abstinence from pmo and with the help of NoFap community I'm back stronger than ever. And I'm achieving things I never thought I could. I feel so confidence, passion and joy in everything I do now. I don't feel like a zombie anymorr I feel free, happy and fullfilled now.
     
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