It's worth going hard to quit that sh*t.

Discussion in 'Success Stories' started by [email protected], Feb 21, 2019.

  1. Hum@n

    [email protected] Fapstronaut

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    Hi everyone!

    I don't want to go into specifics about various positive sides and magic things of doing nofap and so on...

    Instead, I'll be brief to touch upon certain points which I find very important to share with you.

    More than two months ago, I made up my mind to become a better version of myself by giving up sh*tty pmo addiction. Fortunately, I managed to stay clean for more than a month mostly thanks to one interesting and instructive book I ran into (‘Taoist Secrets of Love: Cultivating Male Sexual Energy’ by Mantak Chia). You can easily find it in the net and download it for free. This is a sort of self-help book revealing many interesting facts about semen retention, why ejaculation is exhaustive, how to prolong your sexual intercourse, take it to the new level and enjoy every moment of it, how to stay young etc.

    Once the temptation was so strong that I couldn’t resist and went to surf the net for.. (you know what for). I was a second away from the “take-off” but applied some technique I learned from that book. I was shocked! I lost nothing and didn’t forget to breathe deeply, besides, I got more energetic next morning. I suppose, this is how our sexual energy circulate through the body.

    Guys, I don’t call you out to set up the same risky experiment. The process of watching porn itself is appalling! You must be aware of different crimes committed because of sexual frustration. I bet you have this knowledge first-hand. Just be careful with that please.

    Yes, far as concerned catching girls’ glances, becoming more confident, endurant, quick-witted, it’s true.

    When you decide to give it up and start taking control of your thoughts, you become stronger, brain fog is clearing away, you become more attractive and are not a mousy person anymore. It’s like going up from 5-7 % charged to 100% charged.

    “If you want to make a world a better place, take a look at yourself and then make a change” – MJ.

    Best regards,

    Artem
     
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  2. [email protected] thanks for the Tips, i'm looking forward to reading that book, Congratulations for where you have reached, i envy you, Keep up the fight
     
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  3. Hum@n

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    Thanx for the support, bro! Hope you'll find it useful. Please, do not compare yourself to others as there's only you in the past and you in the present, period. Prove yourself you can do it! I heartily wish you luck.
     
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  4. TheRIghtChoise

    TheRIghtChoise Fapstronaut

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    I just want to chip in here. I know the technique, I know the book. You using the 'million dollar spot?' Dont do that. It's bad longterm. Just use your breathing, focus. Everybody can orgasm with energy easily. THey just need to know how.

    Another thing. Dont do it with Porn. I have tried it so many times. I m able to have multiple orgasms, without ejaculation, while watching Porn.

    But the problem with P is not the ejaculation. You watch P, it doesnt stop. You need to see more and more, losing a lot of precum. You wont be able to think about anything else untill you ejaculate. ANd when you do, you'll feel like same shit or even worse because you basically did a long edging session.

    Its perfectly possible to do this without P. Be relaxed, close your eyes. You could have a couple of O's and, without P, you'll suddenly feel satisfied and be interested in something else. You wont lose a drop and you willl have still your energy.

    Most likely you will be stubborn and try anyway. You'll see at the end.
     
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  5. Just out of curiosity, is the book constructive and essential because you seem to be worried.. or simply you are trying to point out that the techniques can be used for bad or for good, that the book is simply a tool? Or you want to point out that there is ineffectiveness in the techniques pointed out in the book?
     
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  6. TheRIghtChoise

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    If you are interested into going this way( a way I definitely wish to incorporate and already have partially), this book is definitely a good starting point. What is written is that, the point is to draw up your sexual energy and withold from orgasming/ejaculating while solo/ or partner interaction. The milllion dollar point was merely a suggestion for beginners, if they really couldnt hold it, applying moderate pressure on your "ejaculation tube" on your perinuem, will at least prevent the ejaculation (in theory).

    I've experimented with it and noticed this technique is very difficult. Usually you will end up ejaculating and if you don't, you will damage yourself internally. (I got scared good when blood came out the front.) I've also read that later Mantak Chia actually didn't wish his students to try this method, it's completely beside the point he was tring to make. Namely to redirect your energy ( and if done succesfully, experience a full body energy orgasm).

    I've read it years ago and was interested, and followed his guidelines during sex. In my opinion, it's not something that can just be learned overnight so it didnt really work well.

    Its only been last year that, by learning about the energy inside my body, that I have been able to have multiple O's with my partner (in Mantak Chia's view, you have some kind of mechanical sex, and only after that experience the energy orgasm, alone). I cant go further then about three 0's though, or I'll "heat up" too much and ejaculate.(and all while inside my partner).

    It's a very interesting ability, but I'm seriously roadblocked because my P addiction. With P, you lose focus on the body and just end up ejaculating.

    To answer your original question, yes, read his book, it has a lot of good info on it, just dont focus on that "point" ( which I thought was removed from his latest edition, I'm not sure)
     
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  7. Thanks a lot.
    This was informative. If it has a lot of great info besides that "point", then that's good enough... right now i just don't want spend a lot of my time on fake or useless info, i've already lost a lot of it in PMO, so thanks for clrearing my doubts about the book. I'll read it and i will give my own assessment of the book.
     
  8. TheRIghtChoise

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    No problem. It is definitely a good way to begin to know about energy moving through your body. Some tai chi, breathing excercices will also help in this. ( you dont need to become a monk or something. As soon as you have some control over your energy, you can go a long way) . I hardly practice anything from CHia's book now. Knowing your body is most important.
     
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  10. control your life

    control your life Moderator Assistant Staff Member Moderator Assistant

    thanks for the post ,nice read!
     

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