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I've been into a sissy fetish from about 3 years and wanting to get rid of it. Any help?

Discussion in 'Porn Addiction' started by RickNeedsHelp, Jul 1, 2017.

  1. RickNeedsHelp

    RickNeedsHelp Fapstronaut

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    Hi guys, it's my first day here and I'm really glad that I found this site. Everyone here seems so open minded and non judgemental so I hope that I can get rid of my fetish with the help of you guys.
    Actually, I've been into this weird thing from the last 3 years where I fantasize being dominated by other men. I literally have no interest in men. It started when I used to watch feet POVs and suddenly a sissy humiliation video appeared. I don't really understand how I got into it because I never fancied being a sissy slave, a foot slave I'll admit but once I realized that it was hurting my self esteem and confidence, I tried to get rid of this. I'm still okay with a foot fetish because feet don't make me feel degrades but the thought of being fucked by the other men and forcefully sucking their cocks makes me feel uneasy and disgusted nowadays. Any suggestions about what should I try to get rid of this weird fetish?
     
  2. Spidermonky77

    Spidermonky77 Fapstronaut

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    An accountability partner would be a great start. Just to talk stuff out. Peace and love
     
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  3. RickNeedsHelp

    RickNeedsHelp Fapstronaut

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    I will surely look for one. Thanks for the suggestion.
    Peace and Love to you too
     
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  4. donjonquixote

    donjonquixote Fapstronaut

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    Hi, there's a lot of material here. If you buy into the neuroplasticity argument, you have created associations in your brain between personal degradation and sexual gratification.

    So as a first step you need to understand that link and to convince yourself of the absurdity of that mechanism.

    Second step is, through such enlightenment, find the strenght to starve out those neuronal connections through abstinence. Watch YBOP material to understand better the theory, and read on the forum to learn about the method that some people have attempted and some people have successfully used in order to get back control.
     

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