I'm not hating this community. In fact I think it's great, but I've been visiting it less for my recent noPMO journey and I've found it to be more productive and I have less urges now. Here's why: - If I keep going to this forum, I keep reminding myself I'm doing noPMO, which kinda makes it harder, if that makes sense. - Other people tend to detail their sex lives in this forum. At some point during noPMO you start getting desperate and start looking for these threads. Avoiding this forum somewhat helps. I'm also really glad that they added the [NSFW]NSFW[/NSFW] tag, but I hope more people use it.. - A lot of threads are very depressing unfortunately, but it's somewhat expected.. People experessing self-shame, bad sex lives, etc. It's good to read those less. I'm wondering if others do this as well. I'm now 2 weeks in. In my past experience the third and fourth weeks are the most brutal ones as I keep getting nonstop urges and keep fantassizing, and the most I've ever gone without PMO was around 32 days. Lets see how it goes this time.