I've had enough - Ordered a Chastity Device

Discussion in 'Porn Addiction' started by TomBradyGOAT, Mar 6, 2020.

  1. TomBradyGOAT

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    Since ive failed for 6 years and the highest clean streak ive ever gotten to was 9, its time to start taking desperate measures. I dont have anymore time to waste, I have to accomplish my dreams. Im not going to waste another year relapsing and failing over and over again. Im not going to explain the HELL i've gone through due to pornography and masturbation because I've already made a post on it. If interested you can find the thread on my profile.

    I cannot change my mindset if depression and relapsing keep ruining my motivation and drive. Nofap rebalances your chakras and hormones(Bringing my test levels back to normal and higher) and will get rid of depression as well as bring back your drive and motivation. If putting a cage around my dick is what I have to do than its what I will do. I will have no choice BUT to transmute my energy and be productive since I also already got rid of my videogames, computer and TV.

    Theres an old story about how a couple of sailors were sailing to an island of sirens(seductive female creatures that take control of men). The captain told his crewmates to tie him up to the flagpole and cover his eyes so that he would not be seduced by them. His shipmates fell under their spell but the captain saved himself by taking extreme measures.

    Since I'm in University and my home is 2 hours away. All I have to do is drive home and leave the key there . Once I finally feel like i am clear from PMO I'll remove the device. Probably 3-6 months is how long it will take to be cleared of this addiction.

    Of course I am going to take precautions and wait a few days before taking the key home to see if theres any pain or major problems.

    I will update weekly on how this goes once my shipment comes in by the end of the week.
     
  2. Saythatagain

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    I'm heard of couples doing this but it's attached to a fetish. I'm not sure what's going to happen when you get hard in that cage. For me it's almost impossible to control once I start getting erect and worse if it's restrained.
     
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  3. Vairagya

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    I personally think mind control is best chastity. But don't know about such devices. Better you train your mind than harming yourself.
     
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  4. Moon Shard

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    That doesn’t sound like a bad idea, maybe you should also ask your parents to put parental controls on all your shit too?? That’s what happened my boyfriend
     
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  5. TomBradyGOAT

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    My parents? Lol, I'm a grown man and live in an apartment. I also got rid of all my electronics except my phone because I need it.
     
  6. TomBradyGOAT

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    Tried doing that for 6 years and the only thing I could obtain was a measly 9 day streak. Time to move on to desperate measures
     
  7. learning

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    There are freezer containers with time locks (I suppose for dieters). I saw a video where the key to the chastity device was placed in one of these containers.

    That might be an option too.

    I don't know what I think about your idea. I guess you can experiment.
     
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  8. DexterMcRhubarb

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    I've considered this in the past too, I googled it and was surprised to find not many people seem to be using them. I think conquering it mentally is the way to go.
     
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  9. I have used, and still use, a chastity device on occasion. I've had several 100+ day streaks without orgasm and don't think I would have achieved that without the device.
    I also support the idea of "mind control", but a chastity device can be a good back up plan.

    Some people wear the devices 24/7, but I've heard that it can damage your penis (and make it smaller) if you wear one all the time. I usually just wear mine when the urges get really strong and then take it off when the feeling passes.
     
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  10. Neurostudent

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    I have no idea what the long-term safety of using such a device is. Definitely check out how this will effect your erectile health. It would be a tragedy to finally be free of pornography only to have this device do irreversible damage.

    What kind of habits have you implemented in order to heal yourself?
     
  11. TomBradyGOAT

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    Thats awesome. Where exactly did you leave the key though? So as long as the one I ordered fits well I'll be wearing it 24/7.
     
  12. TomBradyGOAT

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    Long term effects I keep reading about say that it can shrink your penis, but that's usually if the cage is too small for you to get a full erection. Personally I don't care about that because I do not ever want to have sex and no women will ever see my penis so it dosent effect me at all if my dick shrinks.
    Habits I implemented
    - Getting rid of all distractions( tv, videogames, computer, leaving cell phone in my car)
    -Surrounded myself with my goals
    -Meditation
    -Cold showers
    -Excercises for building self control
    - Going pescatarian and quitting junk food
    - Went to California to do hard refrigeration work with my uncle for 12+ hours hoping I would be to busy to fap.
    -Trying to substitute porn with my electric guitar, drawing, writing and exercise since my goals are to be an artist and musician.

    None of these things worked.
     
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  13. TomBradyGOAT

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    I room with my brother and his girlfriend so that would be very hard to explain why I have a key locked in the freezer
     
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  14. Di.Do.555

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    Good luck but the better and long term option would be to know yourself. Dig deep into your soul and know what triggers your anxiety.
    Your job is not only to quit pm but to be a better man. They are not always the same.
     
  15. Neurostudent

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    I think he's talking about the Kitchen Safe. No freezer required. I use it for tv myself.

    https://www.thekitchensafe.com/

    Just out of curiosity, why don't you want to have sex??
     
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  16. CodeTalker

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    You are 20, this is really young. How can you know you will not change about this ?
     
  17. fedmom

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    WTF? That could damage the tissue or something which might cause pain. What's the type of porn you watch?
     
  18. Di.Do.555

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    Dm me , i have a drastic solution for you.
    Not as drastic as your solution but has lasting effect.
     
  19. TomBradyGOAT

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    Damaging my dick is worth it when it allows me to quit porn and fapping. Whatever damage there is I can fix it through the law of attraction anyways since I'll be vibrating on a high enough frequency to do so.

    The porn I usually watch is Big Ass, Huge Ass, Big ass Japanese girls and pretty much anything that revovles around big asses and thick amazon woman.

    I'm trying to stay as far away from this cancer as possible.
     
  20. TomBradyGOAT

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    I suffer from depression due to the bullying I recieved in highschool. Its been affecting my drive and motivation. From what I've read and researched 2 weeks of nofap is when the motivation and energy really began to kick in. All I have to do is then transmute that energy into my goals and everyday productive activities and I'll easily be able to beat this addiction because I literally wont be able to fap.
     
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