I am wondering if anyone else has run out of consequences for when their partner disrespects the boundaries? He already sleeps on the couch (been 3mths now), there is no physical touch at all, we dont do things together anymore unlesd it involves the baby......and none of this seems to bother him. He just goes about his life as normal. Obviously the next step is a real separation but due to being stuck in a mortgage for 3more years, financially i cant leave. So what now? Its been 15mths since DDay and he can still lie, keep secrets, stop seeing his psych and avoid any recovery work at all. There is zero communication about his addiction. Im feeling very trapped and he seems quite secure in that fact. Has anyone got any advice about what to do next?