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Jerk off easier than actual sex?

Discussion in 'Compulsive Sexual Behavior' started by PJT, Sep 29, 2020.

  1. PJT

    PJT Fapstronaut

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    What up brothers? So I've been really good no p and m this last yr. So good I got a gf now and a baby on the way.

    However...

    So this weekend we had sex in Saturday and I felt drained. Today I was out with a friend and smoked some cigs which I've also been able to stop for the most part. Cigs are also one of my triggers. I came home ate some food and brushed my teeth and then before I slept I decided to turn on the porn. I fell asleep and then woke up in an hour and turned on the porn again. How is that that I can fap in succession but cannot with the real deal? It takes me like 3-4 hours at the very least for me to have sex withy partner again after just one time. Why is it easier to fap than the real thing? Im trying to understand bc I'd like that same energy to transfer to the real thing.
     
  2. IGY

    IGY Fapstronaut
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    Idk. But you will have to reset your counter. :(
     
  3. PJT

    PJT Fapstronaut

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    I'm not really concerned with the counter . Honestly jerking off twice after not being involved in that behavior for over 3 yrs is not so much the concern lol
     
  4. Psalm27:1my light

    Psalm27:1my light Fapstronaut

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    Because you are using a super stimulus ( porn) to get excited. No one woman is going to excite you this way. You have novelty, with porn.
     
  5. PJT

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    Got it and thank you. There is nearly two decades of programming that I have to deal with and break.
     

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