Join me for one whole year (365 days) Hard Mode challenge! Sign up here!

Are you in?

  • Yea! I plan on stopping porn and masturbation for life anyways so why not. Might as well start now!

    Votes: 109 74.1%

  • I'm not sure I can do it, but I will try it and see how it goes. If I fail at least I've tried!

    Votes: 24 16.3%

  • Hell yea! I love challenge an it would be cool to say that I did this for whole yer! Let's do this!

    Votes: 32 21.8%

  • I don't know if I even want this, but hey, if I chance my mind I can always stop. Nothing to lose!

    Votes: 4 2.7%

  • No. It's too intimidating for me, I prefer to go one small step at a time.

    Votes: 2 1.4%

  • Hell no! Are you crazy? Why would I even want to give up MO?! Porn yea, but MO?!

    Votes: 1 0.7%

  • I don't plan to stop watching P and MO'ing. I don't know what I am even doing on this website.

    Votes: 2 1.4%

  • I will think about it and maybe join later. Maybe.

    Votes: 2 1.4%

  • No. I don't get why would want to give up an O for a year, even during sex?! P and M yes, but O?!

    Votes: 9 6.1%
  • Total voters
    147
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Shugi Shugi said:
Well technically it won't be Hard Mode then. Cos one of the things that defines Hard Mode is no intentional O. So you won't be on a same type of challenge as everybody else on this thread. Nonetheless you're still more than welcome to join on your own rules. But I'm just saying. :p
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Well, at the moment it's been Hard Mode. I think it will be like that a long time because I don't have a partner at the moment and I don't look forward to it. I started last year NoFap but I drank with friends and it spoilt everything. It was my day 28th and I hadn't got any problem so far. I've decided not to drink as well.
 
Hello Shugi, my name is Ocelot :)

Backstory:
Prior to 2017, I've been on multiple reboots for the whole year, starting in February 2016.
It always resulted in me going 3 days to a week where I'd PMO and binge.
I had only made it to 17 days once and 15 days was the closest I've ever made it.

Why I started:
I was a virgin, and I went to a prostitute out of peer pressure by a friend. (I'm the type of person who can't say no). And I realised that I would always lose my erections halfway. I had went more times after that to "test it out" and see if I would perform better. But each time it felt very forced. I felt bored, pressured and uneasy. Certain times I'd last for up to 30 minutes but still was unable to finish. I didn't feel much pleasure, probably 3-4/10.

What confuses me:
Now although what I think I have is PIED/DE. It's funny because I do get morning wood frequently, I do get spontaneous erections throughout the day too. And it would be easy for me to get an erection when close to a girl I know personally and have feelings for. But still, as a male I feel like I should have been able to finish whatsoever.

What I wish to accomplish:
  • Absolutely to stop objectifying women completely.
  • To become to focused at tasks at hand and accomplish more.
  • To become a better person overall.
  • To be able to have successful intercourse with no need for fantasy.
 
10th vote for the second choice! I considered voting for the 3rd....I am already on a good streak, so why not. Here we go!
 
lantti said:
I've already gone since new year. 4 days and some hours gone since then.
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Still going onward, about 8 days now. Cried like a little baby when I remembered what it was like to be with my ex-girlfriend. :( As a side note, creativity and memory has skyrocketed, I can remember like the smallest details from my childhood.
 
Bewater said:
Like a flatline... Not urges, not life underpants.
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It's not a bad thing tho, is it? I don't know, like flatlines. They give us nice brake to rest.
Cadet Ocelot said:
Amen brother. I'm on Day 10 right now. Feeling really good about this current reboot. When we make it, we'll be the minority who made it through 2017 without masturbating. Let's do this!
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Richmond said:
Am with u guys day 9 today, nothing is stopping us now
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@everyone
Right on! We gonna this year strong! I'm confident in myself and you guys. :cool:
 
How is it going guys!???

Day 17. I woke up this morning and I had my first urges. I dreamt I M and I had lost the challenge. Thanks God it was just a dream. I've meditated and the urges has gone. So far, I don't have any problem during the day. It is just when I wake up. I have that like a rock every morning. It's not because I left M but I started to do exercise in a hard mode too.

I'm trying not to look at girls like at sexual object and think if I would f*** them or not. Sometimes, I look at myself and I catch me checking them and give them a mark... Just building a new habit!

Be strong guys! Have a nice day!
 
Day 17. I technically didn't PMO for several days before the new year so I'm probably three weeks in now. Things have been mostly fine, though I've noticed a resurgence in sexual dreams, which can tempt me and have led me to wake up and PMO in the past, but so far, so good.

I sometimes worry if stopping all at once so abruptly is the right way to go about this, but that type of thinking isn't productive. There's no reason I have to go back. I already think I'm being tempted less than I was before, it's just that I notice it more now that I actually resist.
 
Yesterday is history, tomorrow is a mystery, but today is a gift, that is why it is called the present. I'm going to start living by these words and go on hard mode! I'm doing this for myself and God because I know mastairbatio had spiritually broken me and I want to end all the lust that attracts me to PMO. This is my first attempt at hard nide. Wish me luck!
 
Shugi Shugi said:
Day 1. I reset me counter cos of some p-subs. Still haven't MO'd or watched any real porn tho. Here we go, take two!
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No, man. This is was not a reset. The name of the thread is hard mode for a year, not monk mode. Keep counting.

If you would have seen what I've been doing, THAT would be a reset.
 
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