Join my NoFap journey. Accountability for ALL < UPDATED DAILY >

Discussion in 'Accountability Partners' started by corylife, Dec 22, 2019.

  1. corylife

    corylife Fapstronaut

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    First things first, click the "WATCH THREAD" button, or bookmark this thread, add this to your favorites, comment to receive alerts, or something because you're going to be visiting this thread every day for your check up!

    I'll check up on you, you check up on me, we both check on the others. We will encourage each other until this thread eventually just fades, but I will keep going until it's just me left. I will keep updating the thread DAILY no matter what. I don't care if no one sees the thread anymore, I will humbly keep going to the END.

    It doesn't matter when you join, just join my journey!


    Let's hear your tips/advice, your story, your problems, your solutions, your success, your streak, and so on. I will listen, and so will others. All topics about NoFap is allowed.

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    Notice: MAKE SURE YOU HAVE YOUR DAY COUNTER ON AND CONSTANTLY UPDATED.

    Edit 1/20/2020: I am so glad how successful and popular this thread has become, great job everyone.

    Edit 2/2/2020: So many people are not coming back every day and doing their daily check up. This is bad. If you are seeing this, make a commitment! Trust me, when you make a commitment to come back everyday and be actively engaged, you will notice your determination and your willingness to have longer/better streaks will increase tremendously. My average relapse time has went from 1-2 days, to 7-9 days since I started this thread. You can do it!
     
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  2. corylife

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    Today is day 1 for me and comes a long journey ahead! I want you guys to celebrate your milestones, tell your stories, why you guys relapsed, discuss tips and tricks, and so on. I'm here for you, others are here from you. Porn addiction is a silent issue, but not here. :)
     
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  3. AcousticBruce

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    I'm with you man. I am ready. Starting now.
     
  4. corylife

    corylife Fapstronaut

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    day 2 going strong

    I'm so incredibly addicted to porn, that I sometimes scream in to my pillow or have headache type urges on the 2nd, 3rd, or 4th day of NoFap. Even going past 1 week is incredibly difficult and has been almost impossible for me every time I try to go on NoFap. I have watched porn since I was 8, fapped since I was 12, and have been fapping ever since (i'm 19). I just fapped yesterday and I feel like i'm digging my own grave. It sucks so bad that I just want to cry at times.

    Porn has given me social anxiety, slower thinking (brain fog), depression, awkward moments/situations with friends and random people, low emotional intelligence, lack of personality, Attention deficit disorder (ADD), sleepiness/lack of energy, laziness, girls don't look as pretty, desensitization, monotone speech, Erectile dysfunction, lack of motivation, ACNE, thinner hair, and so on. There's also something called the "Blunted Effect" in which you look emotionally flat lined, as if you are a robot or "grey" and you can't really express feelings of joy, excitement, happiness, sadness, panic like how a normal person should. I can't believe I have all these symptoms... and yet I still thought fapping was a good idea... PMO = lower testosterone levels + lower dopamine levels = symptoms.

    I must stop because like you and so many others, I have dreams and aspirations. I want to reach a higher vibration and look at the world from a beautiful, creative, and spiritual perspective as if I was a kid. I want to start my own business, find my soulmate, raise kids, be successful, and live to the fullest. I have failed hundreds of times (literally hundreds of times) and have used countless excuses along my NoFap journey, but this time I'm absolutely 100% determined to make NoFap not just a journey, but a permanent lifestyle.
     
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  5. Harmanchoudhary

    Harmanchoudhary Fapstronaut

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    I am also 19 year old at present on 30th day
     
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  6. corylife

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    You're a lot ahead than me! Keep it up! you must feel some benefits by now.
     
  7. Harmanchoudhary

    Harmanchoudhary Fapstronaut

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    I have gone much longer like 6mnths too.....See first 21 days are hardest just get pass them....... The main benifit clarity of mind it's just great and second one I don't give a fuck about anything
     
  8. SemenRetentionKing

    SemenRetentionKing New Fapstronaut

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    Nice thread. For the first 2 weeks I would avoid being alone or being at home as long as possible. Work more, socialize more, go outside to the gym more, hell go eat out to a nice place just to avoid being home. Do this until the urge somewhat settles down.

    I'm new, and it seems like I clicked the thread at the right time. Good luck guys.
     
  9. corylife

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    I appreciate your message and welcome to the thread King. The problem is, I'm kind of lazy to even go to the gym... Socializing is a bit difficult but ill try. And i don't have a job. But I know what you mean
     
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  10. C12345

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    Im in, Ive been struggling to quit since May. Hopefully I can hit 90 days this time.
     
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  11. corylife

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    Welcome C12345 , I want you to hit 90 days with me. I'm on day 2 as well!
     
  12. Darth_vader33

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    Hi corylife, I'm on day 5, I want hit 90 days. I'm spanish speaker xD
     
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  13. corylife

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    No suprise there. Porn is a worldwide issue so u can't expect everyone to speak english. Welcome
     
    Last edited: Dec 26, 2019
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  14. I'll check in once a week or so.
     
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  15. corylife

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    day 3 im doing fine. i had minor urges and sleeping was a struggle. hope you all are doing fine.
     
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  16. AHMEDTAWBA

    AHMEDTAWBA New Fapstronaut

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    Day 1 , i am ready for the long journey !
    each day i will come here and say what i feel insha Allah
     
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  17. JoJames

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    Day 1. I need a full reset. Ive been addicted to internet porn for most of my teenage life. It’s been mindless, I didn't even think about it. Now I’m 17 and I’m with an amazing girl who I’m lucky to have, but I have trouble staying hard because it isn't the environment I’m used to. Head feel very different compared to masterbation. Im hoping to make 90 days as well. I probably wont help my goals to have a girl teasing me all the time, but i think if i can make 90 days it will help my mind reprogram. I really think this is a beatable problem, I hope company helps. Thanks for being here. Sorry for that bad pun at the end there i couldn't help it.
     
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  18. JoJames

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    This seems like sound advice. Thank you. The mental game does seem like a big issue. Does it get easier later on?
     
  19. corylife

    corylife Fapstronaut

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    Are you abstaining only from Porn and masturbation? What about orgasm? I would still avoid orgasm with a girlfriend.
     
  20. Darth_vader33

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    Today, I had some fights with P because I ran into some temptations while watching about computer security on twitter, but I managed to overcome it, I do not deny that thoughts came to me about what I was doing before, but I remembered the reason why I am here, day 6
     

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